DH messaging other woman

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Found out before Christmas that DH had been messaging another woman. Had it out with him and he promised there was nothing more to it, he would stop, he felt awful for making me feel bad etc etc. Have found out tonight he is still messaging her (surprise surprise). What should I do?

I’m so sorry, this is awful. I wouldn’t be happy but what is worse you can’t trust him now and I’m guessing you will always be wondering every time he starts messaging on his phone.

The last message I saw said "love you".
Usually this would make me however, I was exchanging messages with a guy who is a friend of one of my relatives. We’ve only met once and he did us a huge favour. We have done him an equally huge favour in return and when I messaged him to let him know it was sorted, he responded with “aww thanks, Love you”

I don’t know him well at all. His (few) messages could be considered as affectionate I suppose but I just assume it is how he talks to people. I can guarantee nothing is going on and I also know he is absolutely besotted with his wife.

I hope you can sort this op. What an awful thing to do. MN is behind you all the way x

How does he actually know her? Is she an old friend or someone he has just met?

Please keep us updated as to what is going on. Have you spoken yet?