Hi, im pretty new to mn so forgive me for not yet knowing all the abbreviations!
Whilst on a "romantic" pre new years break with DP i came across a photo of him and another girl with her breasts out. This other girl is a partner to DPs supposed friend. A little background (sorry if i ramble on), DP has in the past been unfaithful and we worked through this, or so i thought. Recently hes been putting me down making me feel generally a bit shi**y about myself whilst laughing it off as a "joke", you're getting chubby for e.g. This specific person in the picture has been used against me before, id be perfect if i was like her i should get a boob job like her ect ect. Anyway, after a long discussion i asked DP to delete this girl from social media and also her number. However this was met with the reaction i am being controlling and telling him who he can/cant be friends with and am now doubting myself thinking im overreacting to the situation as he says it was nothing more than a silly drunk photo. That may well be but it has destroyed the last of my confidence and left me embarrased about myself and feeling rather humiliated once again. Im wondering if i should also tell this girls partner? What would you do in this situation & do you think i abu?