As per previous posts I'm having a lot of problems with my son. Short version of story - 16 years old, in with the wrong crowd, not in work or education, disrespectful. Obviously I'm fucking worried and upset about him and have NO real life support at all. His father is shit and the rest of my own family don't do "support". So it's just me.
So we had the episode yesterday where DS sneaked in a mate in the early hours of the morning after I'd said no to him sleeping over. As a result of this I told him that doors would now be locked from 11.30pm every night and if he wasn't in, tough.
So last night, I text him at 10pm and told him to remember doors would be getting locked at 11.30. At 11.25 still no sign of him. DH went to take dog for a walk and I text DS asking where he was. He replied that he was on the bus and would be 15 minutes. DH gets back and I tell him DS is on his way and will be 15 minutes. This sparks up the cunt in DH where he just goes on and on and on ....
"There's only me that gives a shit"
"He's spoilt my Christmas again"
"You don't give a fucking shit"
"He doesn't give a shit about you"
"I'd do fucking mad at him but I have my own boys here who I love dearly"
"I'm going to tell my boys what he's he's like"
I feel like leaving, I want to leave but it would be 10 times worse when I got back because I'm the only one giving a shit"
Well don't fucking come back then eh? It would be nice if just once, I could get some support from someone - even from god forbid, my husband but no .... he just adds to the fucking problem.