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DH dreamed we divorced

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Boxhike · 31/12/2017 09:28

DH told me last night about the really vivid dream he had the previous night, I thought it was going to be some normal dream.
He said he dreamt we had divorced and he was due to re-marry someone else but that fell through so rather than cancel that wedding he decided we should re-marry, he suddenly felt guilty in his dream because it meant his family would have to travel and make an effort to come to our wedding again.
I was a bit shocked this was going through his head as we have been having a few issues. We watched an episode of the crown and I went straight to bed as I just didn't like hearing that dream being told so casually. Am I over reacting?

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MysweetAudrina · 31/12/2017 22:07

I dreamt of Neil in the Inbetweeners and myself and dh were trying to distract him so th could knock him out. I was pretending to seduce him and dh couldn't go through with knocking him out so I ended up having full sex with him. I woke up as I had orgasmed in my sleep. I told dh all about it this morning.

Lizzie48 · 31/12/2017 23:21

Oh ffs. I once shagged John Major in a dream. I wouldn't in RL if he was the last man on earth.

This made me laugh. He did have an affair with Edwina Currie apparently. I was more shocked that any woman would want to have an affair with him than any kind of moral outrage. Grin

Lizzie48 · 31/12/2017 23:23

Where dreams are concerned, when I was a student, every year not long before exam time I used to dream that I was in the exam room and hadn't revised anything. That was a brilliant motivation to revise.

JeReviens · 31/12/2017 23:25

I dreamed last night that my friend invited me to dinner and served up a plate of beetroot mayonnaise 😂😂
I'm still going to be her friend because, thank fuck, it was a dream!
Beetroot mayonnaise ffs - who ever heard of such a thing.

MsHarry · 31/12/2017 23:32

I'd be locked up if I told you the content of some of my dreams!!! the fact he told you shows his openness.

MsHarry · 31/12/2017 23:33

Oh and DH dreamt a ginger cat put his hand on it's bollocks!!! Grin

gamerchick · 31/12/2017 23:36

My husband had an affair in my dream a few weeks ago. I told him when i woke up and he refused to apologise. Bastard. grin

Heh I had the same dream, I was properly hard stare cross when I woke up and clapped eyes on him. Had to give my head a shake Grin

I dreamed recently I properly gutted the house, moving things and everything. I was most disappointed when I woke up and saw I hadn’t. Ffs could at least dream something interesting Angry

buddy79 · 31/12/2017 23:36

You are over-reacting a bit I think, though I can understand why it feels a bit sensitive. The content of dreams, as hilariously demonstrated, bears no connection to reality! I once had an extremely vivid dream I had murdered someone, hidden their body in a river, and was about to be found out during school assembly. I clearly remember deciding to cut my losses and confess! Was a bloody relief to wake up!!
If anything it might just be that your relationship is in his thoughts - probably not a bad thing.

LadyFlumpalot · 01/01/2018 09:56

Oh I get that dream cross feeling at DH all the time.

I also dream cheat all the time as well. I've only dreamt that I consciously cheated once though. I felt horrible when I woke up.

Had a proper nightmare recently that left me shaken for a good few hours after I woke up. Dreamt that DD's Annabelle doll span it's head round and said "mama" so I threw it out the window. It then dragged itself back up the wall and into the air brick (somehow) so I burnt the house down.

violetbluesky · 01/01/2018 10:07

A dream is a wish your heart makes Wink

Just kidding OP.

Dreams are just dreams

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