AIBU?

[MusicToMyEars800]

Ok, to start I know I am playing with fire starting my thread in this topic, but here I go!

Aibu in thinking my DP is being a knob by refusing to skip his gym sessions when they fall on Christmas day and boxing day?

He is adamant he is going, even though I want him to be at home with me and the DD's for those days, just having the days off to enjoy our family, good food and drink.
So I will be alone with me and the dd's, and they will be asking where he is going and I will have to explain to them, And my eldest dd is old enough to question it and ask why he is going out and not staying at home with us.

He either has had another woman or has a problem with drugs.
Either way i don't think he will change a you have put up with it for so long.

Oh Music love, you need to know, if you don't already, where the fuck he's going, and what he's doing.

Will it unleash a shit storm? Yup, but you'll cope mate,,you will.

Don't let him treat you like a cunt

Sorry but I really doubt he's going to the gym. The nights he stays out until 2pm the next day are very suspicious too.
I think you need an honest conversation about why he feels compelled to go on Xmas day.

My gym is open on Christmas day as it is in a hotel. The hotel is open, so why wouldn’t the gym be?

He is selfish and you've let him get away with his shit behaviour.
Either you leave or he does.
I know money is a problem but if you wait for a time when money is better, you will have spent your youth with that loser. Money doesn't seem to be an issue for him...

I go to my exercise sessions on tuesdays and wednesdays. When i have something else on i change the day, because much as i love kettlebells amd swimming, family comes first. He sounds like a knob.

I’ve been to the gym today! (I am now just finishing a fry up and have my eye on a box of celebrations!)

I’d ask him to go once everything is winding down, or the kids are in bed.

How did today go Music ? You ok?