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Mmmmmmmchips · 18/12/2017 16:40

Went for school pickup
A mum whose DC my DC plays with cane to talk to me.
Amongst the general chit chat I asked her how her Xmas planning was going.
I then told her I’ve done most if not all my shopping.
She then asked why do I buy presents and celebrate Xmas if I’m not Christian.
I am in fact Indian but not any religion.
She asked me again do I celebrate it and what’s the point.
It made me feel awkward but mumbled something.
So was she thinking what someone else would be thinking and just said it out aloud or did she have a point.
For the record I don’t think they are regular churchgoers if at allConfused

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Thehogfather · 18/12/2017 19:29

Yanbu. Unless she goes round asking every white Caucasian who isn't a practicing Christian why they celebrate. Loads of people celebrate Christmas from a cultural perspective regardless of whether they are another religion/ no religion.

Sounds more othering/ ignorant than outright racist, but that's not ok either.

Mmmmmmmchips · 18/12/2017 20:58

Thanks all!

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Mmmmmmmchips · 18/12/2017 21:03

Oh yes and have a Merry Christmas (not all that Happy Holidays malarkey but that’s a different post altogether!
🎅🏾🎅🏻🎅🏽🎅🏼🎅🏿🎅🤶🏿🤶🏻🤶🏾🤶🏼🤶🏽🤶
☃️⛄️❄️🎄🤗

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Mmmmmmmchips · 18/12/2017 21:03

Not sure what those squares are!

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Reflexella · 18/12/2017 21:28

She was rude, tactless & stupid.

Does she attend church weekly?? A lot of Christmas celebrators would not necessarily class thselves as religious (like me) but would see the holiday as family/ community time.

Basically any excuse to eat cake. If it involves cake, I’ll celebrate any religion 😂

sproutsandparsnips · 18/12/2017 22:23

How did she know you weren't a Christian?

Trills · 19/12/2017 18:53

The squares are the skin tone modifiers.

Not everywhere has the ability to show Father Christmas in the variety of skin tones, so we can just see Father Christmas + brown swatch. emojipedia.org/modifiers/

Mmmmmmmchips · 19/12/2017 19:44

Trills you are full of fun facts ( or do you have a lot of time in your hands Grin ... joke)

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Trills · 19/12/2017 19:50

Everyone knows things. Sometimes people know odd things. Emoji just happens to be one of the topics that I know things about.

You did say you didn't know what the squares were, so I thought you might like to know :o

caroline161 · 19/12/2017 19:55

Because I believe in Father Christmas! I just don't believe in Jesus and God! That's what I tell people anyway!

Mmmmmmmchips · 19/12/2017 20:23

Trill 👍🏽

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lljkk · 19/12/2017 20:36

Maybe it just reflects on the questionner to OP. Insensitive & otherwise thinking out loud how bored she is by Xmas.

I am bored, too, that's why I get that part so well.

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