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Vomming child

100 replies

Bigfoot1 · 16/12/2017 14:26

AIBU to think that if your child was projectile vomiting in the train station loo (all over walls etc) you wouldn't then put them on the train.
It's a Santa special
DOI I witnessed the vomiting and we're now stuck sat opposite them. They have a black bin liner....
It's okay, of course I was expecting some kind of illness over xmas, and at least this one will come with some weightloss....

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NetRunner · 16/12/2017 15:50

Agree. Talk to staff. Maybe they can move you. In addition, I imagine they won't ve pleased about the potential for negative publicity on social media if a train full of people come down with norovirus after their Santa Special Experience... seriously, I would be livid. Just the height of selfishness.

Bigfoot1 · 16/12/2017 16:07

Too late. Staff knew. The child stank. There was no vomiting on actual train although they were in the toilets on the train for a while..
he said I'd made his partner feel uncomfortable for the trip. For information i questioned them at the beginning having witnessed the vomiting in the toilets (it was everywhere) and then seeing them on the train with the bin liner. I didn't say anything else until we got back. We just h
gave them a very wide berth.
It really spoilt it for us.

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NetRunner · 16/12/2017 16:09

You'd made her feel uncomfortable?!
Hmm Some people just don't get it.

RuLu · 16/12/2017 16:10

The only reason they felt uncomfortable is because they were totally unreasonable & knew it! Idiots! I would say I can't believe that anyone would be so selfish but know many who would do the same!

Flicketyflack · 16/12/2017 16:11

We had this one year in a visit to Santa. A room full of adults & children decorated beautifully. We waited our turn to see Santa.

Little boy opposite coughing, red faced, baggy eyed.

Yep all laid up that xmas with same thing.

Poor little boy he did not enjoy his visit & we were cursing his parents that xmas.

So selfish Envy

OneOfTheGrundys · 16/12/2017 16:11

Bleugh.
We had noro last Xmas, caught from friends with similar laid back attitude.

Fiona1984 · 16/12/2017 16:13

I have a real fear of vomiting, and this would have totally ruined the trip for me, I wouldn't have been able to continue.
I had to move on the train home once because a woman starting being sick into a plastic bag opposite me :(

elliejjtiny · 16/12/2017 16:19

Yuck. My child was puking yesterday afternoon. We were supposed to be visiting father Christmas today but we cancelled. He's fine now but probably still contagious and we wouldn't want to risk passing it on to others.

elliejjtiny · 16/12/2017 16:20

Yuck. My child was puking yesterday afternoon. We were supposed to be visiting father Christmas today but we cancelled. He's fine now but probably still contagious and we wouldn't want to risk passing it on to others.

Bigkingdom · 16/12/2017 16:23

There is no way i would have got on the train, let alone sit opposite the kid. Infacf i would have said something to the mother before they even got on. Can't stand some selfish parents. A bit of common sense goes along way.

Tink2007 · 16/12/2017 16:31

That is my worst nightmare. I would have said something too. It’s so inconsiderate.

We were coming home on the Eurostar last year and three separate children were puking on the platform. All three lots got on our carriage. Nowhere for us to move to as jam packed and all the kids puked all the way home. Three hours of puking everywhere.

Turned out our carriage was nicknamed the plague carriage and judging by the comments at Eurostar everyone in our carriage came down with it (us included).

WhooooAmI24601 · 16/12/2017 16:33

he said I'd made his partner feel uncomfortable for the trip

Good! Perhaps next time she'll feel uncomfortable enough to do the right thing and take the sick child home away from people who could well catch whatever the child has.

Crunchymum · 16/12/2017 16:34

As an emetophobe, things like this make me want to cry (why the fuck I read these threads I don't know Shock)

Selfish cunts [the parents]

PhobiaRuiningLife · 16/12/2017 16:38

Where was this?? We have a Santa train near us and I don't want to go on it now!!

Bigfoot1 · 16/12/2017 16:46

Unfortunately train was rammed. Sold out months ago. No chance of moving seats.
DH and I both said we would have taken our child home in that situation and lost the £30.
They don't seem like the kind of people who took any of it on board.
I hope if we get it we get over it before xmas. We've had a bad run of luck lately and a christmas of vomming would prob tip us both over the edge.

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SnailPorridge · 16/12/2017 16:51

Agree with phobia - want to know where!!

Steakandchips3 · 16/12/2017 17:11

Yanbu! I would feel the same. Some people are so selfish Angry

Aeroflotgirl · 16/12/2017 17:14

I would be bundling them up and going straight home. Very unfair of the parents.

PhobiaRuiningLife · 16/12/2017 17:35

Is it anywhere in Derbyshire??

BusyBeez99 · 16/12/2017 18:01

I asked a woman whose child quite obviously was recovering from
Chicken pox why her son was in the pool
She said they couldn't stay cooped up in room. My DS hadn't had chicken pox
And so I had to try to avoid her and her child for rest of holiday. Some people are just pure selfish

Bigfoot1 · 16/12/2017 18:01

Phobia No! Smile

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PhobiaRuiningLife · 16/12/2017 18:31

Thanks Bigfoot 😉

sallyjuliet · 16/12/2017 18:31

Did they say it’s definitelt a bug? My son has a really good gag reflex and if he gets anything’s stuck in his throat/if he laughs too hard or cries too hard/stuffs too much food in his mouth in one go, he vomits really badly! Literally everything has come up! This has happened quite a lot out and about so I bet people have assumed he’s had a bug of some kind.
Fingers crossed non of you catch anything if it was a bug!

IHaveBrilloHair · 16/12/2017 18:34

I'm an emetophobe and would have had to go home, it's just selfish and horrible for anyone to do that..

Iamagreyhoundhearmeroar · 16/12/2017 18:38

Well, if they thought it was an ok thing to do, they were never going to be receptive to you telling them it wasn't. That sort never are...
Why on earth didn't you call the staff and insist they do something about it?