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4 year old left on the bus

443 replies

Huskylover1 · 15/12/2017 20:22

Just heard about this on the news.

A 4 year old boy, gets the bus home from school. He misses his stop. Doesn't alert the driver. Driver gets back to the depot and parks up the bus and leaves. Bus driver has now been sacked for this.

In my book, a 4 year old, is way too young to get the bus home. Especially as there was no parent waiting at the bus stop even! Had there been, the parent would have alerted the bus driver that their son was on board, and needed to get off. Usually, this boy makes his own way home from the bus stop, lets himself in, and his parents arrive home from work, shortly thereafter.

Cue lots of moaning by the parents, that they've been let down. No mention from anyone, that perhaps this little boy shouldn't be making this journey alone.

I just can't fathom, how any parent can thinks it's good judgement to let a 4 year old:

  • identify the right school bus to get on
  • realise when he needs to get off
  • walk from the bus stop to home, and let himself in

Bonkers!

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ButchyRestingFace · 16/12/2017 11:30

Has the OP had the good grace to come back yet and admit that they were full of —shit— nonsense

Are you posting from an iPhone?

#strikethroughproblems

Noofly · 16/12/2017 11:31

I’m not! I don’t know why my strikethroughs have stopped working!

ButchyRestingFace · 16/12/2017 11:33

I’m not! I don’t know why my strikethroughs have stopped working!

I have the same problem, on an iPhone though.

I have to scroll down to the ”I” option and manually select the italics option.

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ButchyRestingFace · 16/12/2017 11:34

*not italics, strikethrough

My italics are fine.

Noofly · 16/12/2017 11:46

Thank you, I will try that next time. Grin

OnionKnight · 16/12/2017 11:53

This thread is insane.

bananasaregood · 16/12/2017 12:08

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TooManyPaws · 16/12/2017 12:08

Four in a block flats.

4 year old left on the bus
ButchyRestingFace · 16/12/2017 12:09

Is that Carntyne or Knightswood?

laudanum · 16/12/2017 12:10

Bloody hell. There's no way I'd let a four year old travel alone on a bus. This is the parents fault entirely.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 16/12/2017 12:11

Laudanum have you read the thread?

OnionKnight · 16/12/2017 12:12

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LassWiTheDelicateAir · 16/12/2017 12:14

bananasaregood

Seriously. I’ve never lived anywhere that wasn’t the middle of a massive city, but I have enough basic reading comprehension to figure out “small school minibus for 8 kids + rural + dropped out directly outside child’s house to waiting parent = perfectly normal.”

You have comprehension skills far above many on here! And I am not being sarcastic

SetPhasersTaeMalkie · 16/12/2017 12:15

Holy crap. This thread is so messed up.

SetPhasersTaeMalkie · 16/12/2017 12:17

I watched this on Reporting Scotland last night and it is very clear that the bus driver massively messed up.

PricklyBall · 16/12/2017 12:32

SetPhasersTaeMalkie, can I just say yours is one of my favourite mumsnet user names of all time?

ButchyRestingFace · 16/12/2017 12:34

SetPhasersTaeMalkie, can I just say yours is one of my favourite mumsnet user names of all time?

Yes, it’s good. Xmas Grin

RoseWhiteTips · 16/12/2017 12:35

mrspatel77

Instead of trying to blame the school and the bus driver etc I think we need to place the blame firmly at the parents door!!!!!

Laughably daft. You.

DixieNormas · 16/12/2017 12:37

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RoseWhiteTips · 16/12/2017 12:37

To all the daft ones:

It was a school minibus you fucking idiot.

RoseWhiteTips · 16/12/2017 12:38

The stupid it burns.

TooManyPaws · 16/12/2017 12:56

@ButchyRestingFace I think it's Carntyne but just Googled four in a block. They're not very different right across Scotland.

Mumof56 · 16/12/2017 13:32

i.imgur.com/Me72n8M.png

bananasaregood · 16/12/2017 14:19

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Natsku · 16/12/2017 14:25

It's not a double decker bus from Stabsville to Stabham

Grin

This thread delivers.