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Original poster

You don't have a "rescue", you have a fucking dog!

213 replies

RoboticSealpup · 08/12/2017 18:01

Is this a recent phenomenon? It seems like everyone who has a dog that wasn't bought from a breeder feels the need rub their virtue in others' faces every single time they mention the darned mongrel. "My poodle Henry -he's a two year old rescue - loves cheese!" It's like veganism but with dogs. Don't they realise how sanctimonious they sound?

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IJoinedJustToPostThis · 08/12/2017 18:02

Dude, chill.

sparechange · 08/12/2017 18:04

Isn't it just shorthand for 'I don't know exactly how old/what breed(s) it is, and we might also still be working on the training'?

Nothing I can let myself get would up about though...

sooperdooper · 08/12/2017 18:04

Wow, chill your bones Smile

It's just making conversation tbh, people always ask if our greyhound is a rescue, because they usually are shrugs

Fekko · 08/12/2017 18:05

Isn't it shorthand for 'he may lick you then try to bite your face off?' We had a rescue once - he was very aggressive.

BarbaraOcumbungles · 08/12/2017 18:06

I agree with you completely.

2cats2many · 08/12/2017 18:07

Sheesh. Slight overreaction on your part.

Original poster
RoboticSealpup · 08/12/2017 18:07

Dude, chill

Grin
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guiltynetter · 08/12/2017 18:07

YANBU. it’s annoying!

Undies1990 · 08/12/2017 18:08

Smile sweetly and let it go! No big deal!

MrsJayy · 08/12/2017 18:09

I second dude chill, I have a rescue (dog) but i am not bothered where people get their pups as long as it isn't a puppy farm or off gum tree do your research buy your dog and enjoy your pet.

Frozengeranium · 08/12/2017 18:09

Standard response to “he/she is a rescue dog” in our house is “where is his/her cape?”.

Gotthetshirt23 · 08/12/2017 18:10

Well when someone asks my dogs age (happens quite often) I can't say an exact date of birth as we don't know. He's a rescue 😂

IHaveBrilloHair · 08/12/2017 18:10

I agree.
I don't have a dog but grew up with pedigrees bought from breeders and now have four cats, one was a rescue, the other three weren't and I don't feel the need to mention it.
MN pet threads are like the food threads, hilarious but full of weirdos.

StripySocksAndDocs · 08/12/2017 18:10

Would a vegan with a rescue push you over the edge?

Prawncy · 08/12/2017 18:10

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isseywithcats · 08/12/2017 18:10

as someone who works in rescue (cats) i love it when someone says their dog is a rescue dog and usually ask how the dog ended up in rescue, i love rescue dogs, i spit feathers when some nob head says its a pugchi or whatever stupid new crossbreed between two pedigrees is in fashion and rather than giving a rescue dog a chance of a new life they go to a backstreet breeder and pay pedigree prices for essentially a mongrel, thus encouraging the money machines who dont care about the poor dogs they breed, dont get me wrong i have nothing against proper breeders who breed to promote all that is good in their chosen breed

Smarmydrippings · 08/12/2017 18:11

YABU.
My current dog is a rescue. I mention it because it makes her a different kind of dog in lots of ways. And I'm really proud of how different she is after coming into our family.

BlueWhales · 08/12/2017 18:13

We say our dogs are rescues when people ask age / breed cos we don't know so that's the explanation.

Her0utdoors · 08/12/2017 18:14

People assume dh's dog is 'a rescue'. Nope, unfortunately all her behavioural issues are our own work Sad

RaininSummer · 08/12/2017 18:14

As Spare says, it is a kind of shorthand. In my dog's case it is probably the reason he never plays with other dogs, won't take treats and I don't know his history or age. Also I guess I don't want someone thinking that I actually went to a puppy farm for him which as he is a cross would seem likely.

Sanshin · 08/12/2017 18:15

I agree OP, no need to show off about the fact that you rehomed a dog. It comes across s bit attention seeking like "look how amazing I am, I saved this creatures life!"

isseywithcats · 08/12/2017 18:15

FWIW my last dog was from a rescue in cyprus, she was about 8n when i adopted her from cyprus, all her life she had been used as a breeding bitch which means kept in a shed bred from continously, no love, affection, puppies taken at 6 weeks old from her sold to hunters who kill them at thew end of the season, she was a mess when i got her so timid and thought i was going to hit her every time i went to stroke her, she had so many issues, but when she started to blossom she was one of the nicest dogs ive ever owned, i was proud to say she was a rescue dog

Booboobooboo84 · 08/12/2017 18:16

I found my dog whose potentially a pure breed in a hedge. Is he a pure bred or a rescue? He’s having a real identity crisis about it and won’t accept ‘pure bred hedgedog’as a compromise

JeReviens · 08/12/2017 18:16

I always find it interesting actually. Ours are 'rescues' and I mention it when people ask 'how old' or 'must have been a beautiful puppy' or a thousand other small-talk titbits.
I'm struggling to see why this would bother the OP. If you feel badly go adopt a dog but if that's not your thing then just back off and let those of us that do this enjoy it and talk about it.

DancingHouse · 08/12/2017 18:16

It's the modern term for mongrel.

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