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AIBU?

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to hire a deaf nanny?

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StrangeAndUnusual · 05/12/2017 08:46

She wears hearing aids, and manages well, though she needs people to look at her when they speak, etc. I am deaf myself (more so than her) so it's not at all odd to me (or to my kids, for that matter - who also have very loud voices as a result!).

Another mum said to me yesterday that she thought it was an odd choice, since it's a safety issue - especially walking the children to school & crossing roads etc.

Ironically, this mum lets her 4 and 6 yr olds scoot way ahead of her down the pavement, across driveways etc. And lets them cross the small residential cut de sac next to school without her. While my nanny always has my (same age) kids walking right next to her, and they all do a 'look both ways' routine together before crossing, even though there's rarely a car moving down it.

Personally, I think someone who is deaf but has a built-in road safety routine is much safer with kids than someone who doesn't think about it and just depends on their senses to alert them in the event of danger.

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OP posts:
AnathemaPulsifer · 06/12/2017 23:41

She's questioning why other people (nosy woman mentioned) would think it unreasonable to have a hearing-impaired person care for her children, i think. Given OP is more deaf than the nanny I don't see why you'd read it otherwise.

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