Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask where I can live Monday to Friday

43 replies

Missonihoni · 30/11/2017 14:07

This isn't an aibu as such but posting for traffic. I have found a job and it's 55 miles away from
My house .

Where could I find somewhere to stay Monday to Friday. Air b&b charge service fees which amount to a lot. It would be for four months initially.

Help please.

OP posts:
thelastredwinegum · 30/11/2017 14:08

Airbnb?

thelastredwinegum · 30/11/2017 14:09

Duh sorry I've not got my specs on and thought it said "a b&b service charge".

WillowWeeping · 30/11/2017 14:11

55 miles isn’t too far in the scheme of things. Why can’t you commute?

lionguard · 30/11/2017 14:11

Look in local newspapers for a bedsit or a shared house.

Air BnB people will often do cheap rates for a repeat booking

Humptyhump1 · 30/11/2017 14:12

Whereabouts does it need to be?

Nightmanagerfan · 30/11/2017 14:13

Try mondaytofriday.com or contact Airbnb hosts to ask if they would do a long term discount

Finola1step · 30/11/2017 14:13

What woukd the commute be like?

Missonihoni · 30/11/2017 14:13

Nottingham.

I could commute I supose but from midlands to Nottingham I think I would get hit with traffic both ways. I supose I could do that and book the occasional hotel when I'm fed up of driving.

OP posts:
Blueroses99 · 30/11/2017 14:19

Try spareroom.co.uk. I believe M-F stays are fairly common on there

Wolfiefan · 30/11/2017 14:21

DH worked with someone who bought a campervan for just this!

Lindy2 · 30/11/2017 14:27

How long is the commute? If it's under 2 hours you are probably better off just travelling it. Try and adjust your hours to avoid peak travel times if you can. ie go in early, stay late and go to the gym or similar after work to avoid the rush etc.
I live on the Lindon/Surrey borders. 1.5 to 2 hour commutes are pretty normal here.

Missonihoni · 30/11/2017 14:30

Do air b&b allow you to negotiate with the host? I would prefer my own space instead of a room to rent.

i have checked online and the village is only 159 for a week. At least I can use the swimming pool for free lol.

OP posts:
Missonihoni · 30/11/2017 14:32

It says an hour on google. To be honest I work for the same company now and today it took me 40 min to get here and it's only about seven miles away because it's the worst location from
My house. I will try the commute I think.

OP posts:
Caroelle · 30/11/2017 14:32

Look for a local B and B and ask if they will do you a special rate for 4 nights a week. Advertise on local FB page and ask if anyone wants a lodger for 4 nights a week for 4 months? Someone might like the extra money, especially if they’ve just bought a house.

Hippadippadation · 30/11/2017 14:37

How long are you planning to stay in the job? Could you buy a small flat to use in the week? Or could you do compressed hours or wfh a day or so a week so you don't have to do the commute every day?

DailyMaileatmyshit · 30/11/2017 14:42

Gumtree, spareroom.com, mondaytofriday.com, easyroomate.com

plenty of places. Even somewhere suggests it's full time rent, contact the landlord and they may do a discount for a M-F lodger.

butteriesplease · 30/11/2017 14:46

why not just try the commute and see? If it's too horrific you can decide if you want to move house to be nearer job or rent somewhere Mon-Fri.

Is there no public transport? you might be able to organise a lift share, and then only do the driving a few times a week perhaps?

Missonihoni · 30/11/2017 14:49

Thanks for all the suggestions they are really good.

OP posts:
Missonihoni · 30/11/2017 14:49

I'll check about compressed hours and wfh one day per week for sure.

OP posts:
OllyBJolly · 30/11/2017 14:49

I stayed in London for three years on a Monday-Friday basis on a place I found on www.mondaytofriday.com. I paid £400 pcm and that included all bills and weekly cleaning. It was a little annexe to the owners' home and I hardly ever saw them. SW11 so very central - great deal.

TonicAndTonic · 30/11/2017 15:18

Gumtree or spareroom.co.uk for the area you're looking to move to

GinNeeded · 30/11/2017 15:24

You can definitely negotiate with air bnb hosts. I have an apartment which is always sold out at the weekend, and I have given up to 50% discount to contractors for a direct booking as guarantees my quiet times are filled.

rightsaidfrederickII · 30/11/2017 15:31

Spareroom.co.uk has a specific search filter for Monday to Friday lets

Foxsox · 30/11/2017 15:34

I lwoukd Commute

But I should also add that Nottm (well the M1 are kind it) is a nightmare at the moment.
Where in the Midlands are you coming from?
Is the train an option?

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 30/11/2017 15:37

40 mins - 1 hour each way is my normal commute - and it's only 20 miles! It's fine, I listen to the radio and use it as a bit of headspace. (But then I used to commute in London so anything is preferable to being squashed into the tube on 2 hours each day!)

Swipe left for the next trending thread