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To think this is too much to ask

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ThisLittleKitty · 27/11/2017 14:59

My friend has just found an exchange for a 3 bed council house (so will be swapping with her 2 bed) anyway the property requires ALOT of work and looks to be in very poor condition (she took pics to show me) anyway she asked if I could help her paint it. I told her with 4 kids it wouldn't really be possible and that I need my own house painting but I do it when they are in bed asleep. Anyway she said when I drop my older 2 to school I could walk down to the house (about 15 minute walk and paint it whilst she's at work! I agreed to it as was caught of guard but now think this is really cheeky. Aibu?

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ICanNeverThinkOfAGoodUsrname · 27/11/2017 17:17

Your friend is either mad or a CF.

ThisLittleKitty · 27/11/2017 17:18

Oh yeh didn't think of that. You wouldn't be able to just paint the walls the walls are really bad. Apparently the woman's going to fill in the holes before leaving that's how bad they are. The bathroom looks horrendous.

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TigerTown · 27/11/2017 17:21

I can’t for the life of me ever imagine someone asking this. What the hell?! To ask if you could spare a few hours over a weekend to HELP her paint it, or to watch her kids while she paints or something, sure. But to ask you to go to her house while she’s at work?! I wouldn’t even ask family to put themselves out so much.

TheDevilMadeMeDoIt · 27/11/2017 17:29

She thinks that as you're a SAHM you do nothing all day except drink coffee and watch daytime TV, while she's out all day working.

Time to put her straight.

expatinscotland · 27/11/2017 17:32

Oh, fuck her off! She's got more front than Sainsbury's. She has a 14-year-old, they can do it in her time off. Don't offer alternatives or offer to do it with her or find her decorators.

ThisLittleKitty · 27/11/2017 17:33

That's exactly what she thinks.

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TigerTown · 27/11/2017 17:33

I agree with devil

expatinscotland · 27/11/2017 17:34

She shouldn't take on the house if she's unable to fix it up to her standards.

mum11970 · 27/11/2017 17:41

Are you allowed to swap a 2-bed council property for a 3-bed if you only have one child? That really doesn’t seem right. She sounds a CF all round. Do not do her painting for her.

alltalknobaby · 27/11/2017 17:43

"No". Sorted.

ThisLittleKitty · 27/11/2017 17:47

Apparently you can swap from a 2 bed to a 3 if you don't get any benefits.

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DancesWithOtters · 27/11/2017 18:11

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AllRoadsLeadBackToRadley · 27/11/2017 18:29

Hell no!!

I had to have help painting mine recently. I sent messages to ASK if anyone was free! I would never have expected this!

Paintzilla she is a cheeky fucker. Someonr needs to bolt that damn gate shut!

TheMaddHugger · 28/11/2017 06:59

and yes it would mean painting with a baby and a 3 year old.

If she doesn't take No for an answer start rambling about toddler paint art.
You know, when you let little children loose in a house with paint [non toxic hopefully]

Ahhh I can dream. I know it wouldn't really happen.

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