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Not to make dinner for DH

82 replies

MrsMarigold · 26/11/2017 21:25

We finished lunch at 4pm (a roast) I thought DH wouldn't need dinner but he is furious I haven't made anything. He was expecting another cooked meal. Kids had a cheese baguette before bed.

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Tiredmum100 · 26/11/2017 21:54

I'd be on the phone arranging the divorce in the morning then. What a dick. Greedy sod.

Bluntness100 · 26/11/2017 21:56

I hope thiis is a joke because if it’s not your married to an arsehole

ButchyRestingFace · 26/11/2017 21:57

He is gluten intolerant so no bread, he made two eggs and said he wants a divorce

There. Fixed that for you. Smile

diddl · 26/11/2017 21:57

We mostly just have a light evening meal-I cook for me & the kids at lunch & husband eats at work.

I can't ever remember getting him anything in the evening!

I've usually eaten before he gets in so he gets his own food.

Your husband sounds very strange, Op.

Furious & talking about divorce because he made himself a light meal?

ChrisPrattsFace · 26/11/2017 21:57

Reason for divorce? Not cooking me dinner...

He’s a douchbag.
As for straw that broke the back - hope everything is OK OP!

MrsMarigold · 26/11/2017 22:00

It's not a joke things have been awful for ages. Although I'm shit scared and literally have about 20p to my name I want one too. I feel like all I do is cook, clean, deal with our children with no help from him.

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Regularsizedrudy · 26/11/2017 22:04

Why do you only have 20p to your name???

Parisa78 · 26/11/2017 22:05

How have you survived this long? He sounds like a hideous bully. How old are the DC and can you kick him out. Call the police and say he frightens you.

Bluntness100 · 26/11/2017 22:06

Why do you only have twenty p? Is he financially abusive also?

littlemisscomper · 26/11/2017 22:06

Was he serious about the divorce? He sounds like every strong name he's been called on this thread - hell if he didn't start proceedings, I would! Do you own the house or rent?

Hogtini · 26/11/2017 22:07

If someone wanted to divorce me on this basis I would shake their hand and let them fuck the hell off. How pathetic.

GertrudeCB · 26/11/2017 22:09

Is he also financially abusive ?

GertrudeCB · 26/11/2017 22:10

You might want to get this moved to the Relationship board op ....

Shoxfordian · 26/11/2017 22:11

Why don't you have more money? I think you need to definitely consider a divorce

Annelind · 26/11/2017 22:13

OP you may want to ask MN to move this to the relationships topic. This situation sounds abhorrent, and you'll receive lots of help and support there.
Your "D" H is a cunt, btw.

Lunde · 26/11/2017 22:16

Well he'll have to cook all meals by himself if you divorce - unless he runs home to mummy!

thatcatpidgeon · 26/11/2017 22:20

You don’t have to put up with that, what fucking century does he think he’s living in!

For a start you can have a lot more than 20p to your name if you divorce him - like half the assets to start with, ore than likely the house plus he’ll have to pay maintenance. Time to find a shit hot lawyer & for your cockwomble of a STBXH to learn to cook for himself..

ToffeeUp · 26/11/2017 22:21

Well if he wants a divorce, he might as well get used to doing things himself straight away. You can stop cooking, washing etc for him starting tonight.

gingergenius · 26/11/2017 22:22

A divorce? After you cooked him a roast? Ungrateful bastard

flumpybear · 26/11/2017 22:23

Banish him to the loft! What a prick!!

Calvinlookingforhobbs · 26/11/2017 22:23

🙄

munkynutts · 26/11/2017 22:25

I can't tell if this is serious.

If it is, hes a cunt.

SuperVeggie · 26/11/2017 22:33

I hope you are ok op but this is one serious dripfeed..

ManchesterGin · 26/11/2017 22:52

Be brave and do what you can to get away from this man.

MrsMarigold · 26/11/2017 22:53

Sorry this was meant to be light hearted because I thought DH was being daft but then things took an odd turn. I'm not going to post further but as I said it's the straw that broke the camel's back.

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