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Do I really look in my late forties??

58 replies

milkyman · 23/11/2017 13:05

I got the pill today from the chemist. The pharmacist asked me if it was for contraception or HRT? I'm 42 and felt stupidly shocked that I've suddenly become older than I though I was!!!! Or would he just have seen my age on the form?!

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pennysnow · 23/11/2017 14:37

@milkyman

He may have thought you were in your late 40's and so wondered if it was for contraception or HRT ... But why he needed to know just baffles me.

I don't mean to be rude about your age BTW, I am sure you don't look older than you are, but some people see and guess peoples ages differently IYSWIM. I am in my early 50's, and have been mistaken for 44-45 y.o, and have also been asked if I would like a senior citizen card by some bloody woman in a shop! Hmm So that obviously bloody short-sighted woman! thought I was over frikkin' 60!

In reality, I look 'roughly' my age. On a good day, with make up, a bit of a tan, and the grey roots covered at my temples, I could pass for 45, on a bad day (no make up, grey coming through etc,) I look 55-56.

Still struggling to fathom why he asked. Some of them are a tad nosey. My friend had very bad thrush in the summer, under her boobs, under her armpits, on her chest etc, and she was on very strong anti fungal tablets. The pharmacist was desperately fishing for where she has the severe fungal infection. 'We will have the other 7 tabs tomorrow' he said 'so here are 21 for now... So I guess your feet will be Ok with them for now. I guess it's your feet yeah?' Smile

My friend just smiled and said 'aawww thanks, I will be back tomorrow for the rest..'

Maybe they are just making conversation, but unless they are asked for advice, I don't understand why they need to fish. I know they have to ask certain things, like if you have taken them before, and if you are on other medication and so on. But the pharmacist did not need to know what your pill was for, OR what my friend's anti fungal cream was for.

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 23/11/2017 14:38

I suppose you'd have to pay for the prescription if it was HRT. Contraception is free.

OlennasWimple · 23/11/2017 14:40

I'm early 40s and pretty certain I'm heading into menopause territory

Anyway, the question was almost certainly to determine whether the prescription was free or needed to be paid for, not just fishing or making conversation Hmm

Evelynismyspyname · 23/11/2017 14:45

Mini it's a very good thing pharmacists (some of whom have doctorates in pharmacy so as much training in pharmaceutical matters as as most GP s) check prescriptions. I was once prescribed incredibly strong medication usually used for patients undergoing chemotherapy and with significant side effects totally inappropriately - the pharmacist luckily warned me and double checked they were what I was expecting, and I didn't take them! There are plenty of occasions when the "4 eyes system" of a pharmacist reading the prescription with educated eyes before handing out drugs has caught a prescribing error made by a doctor one way or another. Pharmacists aren't shop assistants.

Elendon · 23/11/2017 14:50

It's weird but I look younger now I'm in my 50s, despite the grey, which is silver really and looks like expensive hair lights. I had a baby when 40 which, despite being fit as a fiddle/butcher's dog, took an awful lot out of me in terms of looks and physical fitness - despite being incredibly content and happy with my son.

Please don't think this. Anyway as pp's have said it's to determine whether the prescription is free or not. this decade will go so quickly

BeyondThePage · 23/11/2017 19:14

The doctor SHOULD have written "for contraception" if the pill was for contraception purposes. and therefore free

Some doctors do not write it. Some patients request that they do not.

The pharmacist probably thought you were too YOUNG for HRT so asked for the usage. I would take it as a compliment!

Rowgtfc72 · 23/11/2017 20:31

Picked up my pill yesterday without a query. Im 46 in january. Should i be worriedGrin

ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 23/11/2017 20:36

There's a box for the patient to tick on the back of the prescription saying "Free contraception".

Maybe OP forgot to tick it, so the pharmacist needed to do that.

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