well husbands step son and wife haven't spoken to us in 5 years. they got married and had 2 children. All this we found out 3rd hand. Hubbys dad was seriously ill and step son got in touch 6 months after this. He knew full well what was going on .
Neither of us are interested . Its hubbys step son from his first marriage so nothing to do with me . I said its up to him if he wants to get back in touch . Ive been blamed for everything by this lads mum and now lack of contact is also being blamed on me. Ive learnt to keep quiet and not get involved with any of it as my words are twisted.
My step son (husbands son ) is now being cold with me and I am sure he is being "turned" by the other relatives.
In all honesty I think hubbys step son is thinking we have come into money . We have both got new cars and had work done on the house .He got in touch and asked if we would go with him to see husbands parents with us ! He wrote to hubby as if the last 5 years had not happened .He asked to make up. we have not replied to any messages .
I know people say life is too short but we just can t be doing with them especially now that they have kids. We know that if we did make up and got close to the kids there would eventually be fall out and they would be involved .AIBU to stay away ?