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Why are the media horrified and amazed George bush Sr has had allegations of sexual assault made when we have a self confessed and proud sex offender in charge of the USA?

75 replies

StealthPolarBear · 17/11/2017 17:11

Clearly it's been approved of by the current president. So other men do it too, how can that be more newsworthy.
Right now the only men that could shock me would be dh, dad and fil.

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PerfectlyDone · 17/11/2017 18:43

He has grown up in a culture in which his wealth, power and perceived stature in the world has taught him that he is entitled to whatever he wants and like a toddler, he sees somebody pretty he 'has' to kiss them.

And they are to feel flattered and honoured and happy that he noticed them...

Hmm

If my eyes rolled any further back, they'd fall out of the back of my head.

GWB may have better manners and comes across as less uncouth, but is cut from the same pattern IMO, as are so many men.

StealthPolarBear · 17/11/2017 18:45

No. Sadly.

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Lillybilly20 · 17/11/2017 18:46

That's just awful! Too much money and power going on there

PerfectlyDone · 17/11/2017 18:52

Not convicted of anything yet....

TheDowagerCuntess · 17/11/2017 19:04

No, he hasn't been convicted of anything. Neither has Harvey Weinstein. Neither has Kevin Spacey. Ad infinitum....

These people rarely are convicted, because it's one person's word against another; there are virtually never any witnesses; and the onus is on the prosecution to prove guilt beyond reasonable doubt. Unlike other crimes, this works hugely in the defendant's favour. As they well know.

When you've got someone who boasts about sexually assaulting women (to the media 🙄🙄), combined with a significant number of women actually accusing him of same, it takes a certain level of determined blinkered-ness to give him the benefit of the doubt. Me, I'm happy to jump to conclusions.

StealthPolarBear · 17/11/2017 19:09

Jimmy Saville wasn't convicted either

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TheDowagerCuntess · 17/11/2017 19:13

Yes, that was the other name I was trying to dredge up.

Of course he's innocent! It was never proven, he was never convicted.... 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Lillybilly20 · 17/11/2017 19:17

Has Trump ben arrested for any of it?

Lillybilly20 · 17/11/2017 19:19

Sorry if i'm coming across as a little ignorant it's just that I can't stomach reading about anything he says or does 😂

PerkingFaintly · 17/11/2017 19:32

Yep, no convictions; multiple independent accusers.

So could be none of the allegations are true.
Could be all of the allegations are true.
Could be some are true and some aren't.

TammySwansonTwo · 17/11/2017 22:11

Yes, just like over 90% of the rape cases that actually manage to make it to a judicial process, he hasn't been convicted.

Must have been lying then, eh?

Gilead · 18/11/2017 00:22

Why did it take one man to bring down Kevin Spacey and dozens of women to bring down Weinstein, Saville, et al.
Why was Amber Heard not believed until her husband's male management team stepped in to support her?

TheDowagerCuntess · 18/11/2017 01:02

Because if a man says it, it must be true.

Women are just vindictive harpies, who get kicks out of making shit up, and not being believed.

runners656 · 18/11/2017 01:10

the sex offender isnt in the white house his enabler wife and him were defeated

whosafraidofabigduckfart · 18/11/2017 01:38

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StealthPolarBear · 18/11/2017 06:27

Really runners? So grab them by the pussy isnt an aggressive act?

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runners656 · 18/11/2017 07:53

liberal logic allegations must be believed unless its monica lewinsky then its part of a vast right wing conspiracy

lljkk · 18/11/2017 08:39

Trump fully believed he had consent on the Hollywood tapes. DT is a vulgar pillock & I can't wait for him to be forced out, but I don't find the Hollywood tapes proof or admission that Chump did sexual assault.

Lewinsky always said she consented.

I'm different from MNrs because I like the system Innocent until Proven guilty.

InfiniteSheldon · 18/11/2017 08:45

lljkk well said there is no evidence of Trump being anything other than a crass ignorant bore ffs sexual offender is not a label to be applied lightly it demeans all women who suffered actual sexual assault. Equating Trump to the latest exposure of the worst of Hollywood and the Political classes is a perfect of example of small minds jumping on bandwagons.

Lillybilly20 · 18/11/2017 08:57

lljkk InfiniteSheldon have to say I completely agree with you both.

TammySwansonTwo · 18/11/2017 09:50

Again, innocent until proven guilty is a legal mechanism for court rooms, not whether something happened or not. The vast majority of rapists are never convicted, do their crimes cease to exist without that conviction?

Read the first part about Ivana. www.snopes.com/are-we-not-going-to-talk-about-trump/
She gave a sworn deposition. If you're so hot on your legal adherence, a sworn deposition is evidence. I'm wondering what evidence you would like of a crime committed mostly in private that comes down to one person's word over another? And if that's just tough luck, then that's a handy "how to assault and get away with it" guide relied on by many serial abusers.

Someone he says he just kisses them, doesn't wait, grab them by the pussy... he would have consent how?

I never doubted Lewinsky for a second. I'm pretty sure she never claimed a lack of consent, but obviously his position of power makes her ability to consent questionable. Regardless, I don't know anyone who didn't believe her.

No one is saying that all allegations are accurate but false claims are rare and no more common than for other crimes. If I tell you I've been mugged, you'd believe me, but I recount the five separate men who've sexually assaulted or raped me, and I'm automatically lying because there are no convictions?

Gilead · 18/11/2017 09:54

the sex offender isnt in the white house his enabler wife and him were defeated
That doesn't mean another hasn't moved in...

lljkk · 18/11/2017 10:16

Tammy, why wasn't DT charged with raping Ivana?

TammySwansonTwo · 18/11/2017 11:09

Because she didn't report it to the police, probably. How many spousal rapes do you think are reported to the police?

lljkk · 18/11/2017 12:28

"Probably"... If we're speculating, I imagine she didn't want her children to have to choose between their parents, too. Meanwhile, his defenders would say she invented the incident to strengthen her financial settlement from the divorce, I suppose. Thing is, all the speculating is precisely what I am not interested in. "Fake News" = speculation dressed up as fact.

Too bad no one has managed to prosecute DT successfully. Could have saved the world a lot of bother.