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To feed my evening guests chips and cake...

185 replies

Mooey89 · 15/11/2017 23:22

We’re getting married on a tight budget next summer...

Reception is a mega chilled informal affair... we’re having a late afternoon wedding and not having a formal sit down dinner but having big pans of Paella/street food type stuff, then Eaton mess for dessert...

The trouble is, we have quite a few extras coming in the evening (small ceremony venue & met at work so loads of colleagues!) and I’m really stuck for what to feed people later in the evening!

I was thinking of fish and chip shop chips wrapped in paper cones... wedding cake, maybe some bread and cheese? It’s a seaside wedding so thought this could be fun! BUT it’s then a lot of shitty food!

Any other ideas very welcome... whole wedding budget is 4K so trying to keep costs down but I obviously don’t want hungry guests!

OP posts:
VileyRose · 16/11/2017 09:22

The best wedding I went to had a chip van!

ItsReallyColdTonight · 16/11/2017 09:26

Fish n chips! Sound amazing :) wish I was coming! Sounds lovely and relaxed! Smile🍟🍰🍻🐠

GeminiRising · 16/11/2017 09:26

Been to an evening do with cones of fish/chicken goujons and chips. It was brilliant! Can't see any problem with that.

RedForFilth · 16/11/2017 09:28

Maybe do fruit instead of bread and cheese or do mushy peas, baked beans, bread and butter as sides for fish and chips and skip the cheese to make it a bit healthier. ahh good old mumsnet Wink

VanillaLatteAndCake · 16/11/2017 09:28

I think it's a great idea. Could also do sausage for those people who don't eat fish??

TonicAndTonic · 16/11/2017 09:35

I recently want to a wedding that did sausage or bacon baps (and veggie equivalents) in the evening. They went down really well.

Also been to one that had a selection of posh breads with cheeses, cold meats, olives, pickles etc. That was also really nice!

Agree that fish and chips might smell a bit strong.

GeekyWombat · 16/11/2017 09:39

We had a wedding cake of cheese as the main part of our evening buffet, with a heap of different chutneys, breads, biscuits and grapes. So many people said it was their favourite part of the food - especially after a few beers.

We bought four different kinds of cheese (with a heart shaped cheese at the top and a cake topper on top of that) and had loads leftover. Smoked cheddar still makes me think happily of my wedding day :D

That said, bacon rolls or chips as a post beer food doesn’t get much better!

Oogle · 16/11/2017 09:41

Whatever you do, make sure you let your evening guests know whats on offer in advance of the day. I've been to a wedding with a tiny buffet and unfortunately all the day guests piled on to the buffet first because they were A. pissed and B. still hungry from the dire wedding breakfast. I ended up with a few crisps and a sausage roll.

Another wedding just served bacon rolls at 10pm. Luckily we'd been for an early dinner otherwise I'd have been starving and pissed by 10pm.

I do love the idea of the wedding cake being cheese though. That would really keep me happy.

mindutopia · 16/11/2017 09:51

I think fish and chips and then other snacking food (cheese, crackers, bread, fruit is fine) for the evening. I've enjoyed the hog roast when I've had it, but can understand why you wouldn't. I've been to a few weddings where the evening food was just cheese and crackers and that sort of thing, so think it's perfectly fine to do fish and chips too.

OohMe · 16/11/2017 09:54

I agree with the poster who suggested pizza? Would that work?

Rebeccaslicker · 16/11/2017 09:56

I'd bloody love it! Cheap and cheerful food like pizza, fish and chips, bacon baps, nachos, mini sausages, cheese and biscuits - people will fall on it like ravenous wolves after dancing and drinking :)

moonlight1705 · 16/11/2017 09:56

I didn't book one for our wedding but there was an jacket potato stand who did weddings.

But I do love the idea of a fish and chip supper.

diddl · 16/11/2017 09:57

Chips & cake?

Doesn't sound great to me.

Salad? Vegetarian buffet?

Why can't the evening guests have paella & street food?

brasty · 16/11/2017 09:59

Fish and chips are better for a diverse range of ages as well. Kids to elderly people will eat them.

diddl · 16/11/2017 10:00

To clarify Op-will there be fish or not?

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 16/11/2017 10:02

I think that sounds fine.

Went to evening bit of wedding recently-it was in a barn and very chilled-and they had a pizza oven street food person come in a little van and do pizzas.
They were very nice and ppl queued enthusiastically-even when it started to rain!

Caenea · 16/11/2017 10:02

My friend's evening reception had fish and chips! It was a lovely and unusual little touch and it went down really well!

notsohippychick · 16/11/2017 10:04

Sounds bloody lovely!! Go for it!!

Whinesalot · 16/11/2017 10:11

Sounds great to me.

Animation86 · 16/11/2017 10:12

I'd TOTALLY love that! Bash on!!!

NegansBitch · 16/11/2017 10:16

we had chip butties and bacon butties for our evening meal at our wedding. they went down a storm and everyone went away stuffed.

its a wedding, a party.... I personally wouldnt care too much about "not healthy enough" as its just 1 day.

fish and chips sounds fab, but like someone said fish bites may be cheaper and easier to eat as a buffet.

Mummaofboys · 16/11/2017 10:16

Fish and chips is a great idea as long as there are some peas, lots of people would pick this in a pub as a meal and then have a dessert after it anyway. Its a treat meal but I’d expect a treat kind of meal at a wedding, usually a boring gravy affair, yours sounds much better!

brasty · 16/11/2017 10:17

And I would love cake and be disappointed at cheese. But then I love cake.

brasty · 16/11/2017 10:18

Just make sure they use vegetable oil and not lard. Fish and chips cooked in lard does smell much more strongly and the vegetarians will not be able to eat the chips.

ThisBigSky · 16/11/2017 10:22

I hope no guests are low carbing.

Seriously unhelpful. Low carbing is usually a choice to lose weight - it's not something that needs to happen ALL the time. Unless it's the keto diet for epilepsy (which I highly doubt) the OP doesn't need to feel guilty for not having low carb meals.