To stop talking to this "friend"

[Misspollyhadadollie]

I posted recently about my extremely judgemental friend. Who said my house should be spotless yes spotless. With 4 kids, (one with asd) and lone parent. No family help. I was telling her how I couldn't really host things at my house as I was struggling with the house work. Anyway I got "there's no excuse" and "it's not impossible" today I thought I would mention it again to her as it's been playing on my mind and she said "I would manage to, it's doable" I said yeh you have one kid. She said "I would manage to with 5" wibu to stop talking to this so called friend as I'm finding her abit too judgemental tbh?

Yep, dump her.

I have 4 kids, one with ADHD, we're a two parent family, we are always clearing up or cooking or mending things, the two older ones have chores and we have a housekeeper/nanny that cleans 5 mornings a week from 7-11 when I'm at work and the house never seems really sorted, your friend is talking shit, I would tell her to piss off.

Tell her to mind her own bloody business and if you wanted an opinion you would have applied for How Clean is Your House.

Dullard - absolutely.

I have an aquaintance on fb that lists all the chores she's done like it has earned her some sort of accolade and often finishes it off with 'bored now'.
I always want to reply 'read a book then'.
She's ignorant and boring and what's more, she is willfully so.

You don't have to feel inferior to this woman. She's sad and lacking. You're grand. x

I think your "friend" may have been posting on here the other day

Link?

I "had" a friend like this. Absolutely judgemental and would talk about everyone and their house and hers was spotless. I found out her mum was doing it all for her while she was at work and she made out like it was her that was the juggling working mother, wife who could keep up appearances. I laugh now when I think about all the crap she used to say.

Drop the " friend" , not worth having so much negativity in your life.

Friend sounds completely lacking in empathy.

@SchadenfreudePersonified

There it is:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3071642-To-think-it-is-easy-to-keep-your-home-clean

Hi would ditch her, she is no friend.