Hey, a few of you were asking for an update on the boys so here it is...
Around midnight last night (after landing in UK) I managed to get hold of ex husband sister who confirmed the boys had slept in the car Thurs night but were booked into a guest house last night.
I spoke to them this morning and they were OK. I'm not sure where they are tonight as he's told me they are back Sunday but my eldest said today so. Not sure. He also said that his dad had told him to tell me they'd slept in the car both nights to trick me.
Ill speak to them tomorrow at some point and when I can I'll speak to both boys about being honest in those situations.
Apologies for my tongue-in-cheek comment about cocktails too was being sarcastic of course my children are my priority.