DoJo
I don't see how it's pretentious to pronounce someone's name the way that they themselves pronounce it?
Yes, I deliberately set out to mispronounce the actress's name. You should have heard what I did to "Handl."
Seriously, my friend would have no more idea than I how Irene Handl actually pronounced her name. Considering Ms Handl's surname is of German origin and she was the daughter of an Austrian father and German mother, she may, for all I (or my friend) knows, have pronounced in the German manner, which is (perhaps this, perhaps not: who knows how accurate Youtube is) thus: and different to either.
So, yes, in this case, I would consider her to be pretentious on two grounds;
- she said the altered pronunciation immediately after I had said it, which could be perceived as a social solecism, or to my way of thinking, as I previously wrote, oneupmanship. If she didn't like my pronunciation, she could have kept it to herself and not "corrected" me.
- she actually has no real idea of the actual correct pronunciation that Irene Handl would have used, but chose what she perceived as the "classier" of the two.
Her whole response was completely unnecessary.
I am unable to find anything that says how Irene Handl pronounced her name, and since she's been dead for thirty years, I don't think I'll be able to find out from the source.
However, do you have any first hand knowledge of the lady - perhaps you can enlighten me?
However, whatever the pronunciation, my point about my friend still stands.