Surely he was being U?!

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He doesn't seem to think so and thinks I was!

We're due to go out tonight. 1st time together since dc have been born... ds is 8!!

7am in bed with a cuppa.

Me: Do you still want to go out tonight?
DH: What, yeah why you asking I've only just woken up!
Me: Because I need to let dfriend know that we're still going. Have you asked GP if they can watch DC.
DH: No, get off my case, we've just woken up.
Me: Well yiu need to ask them, we need to know.
DH: Stop going on, stop being a bitch!

So I got pissed off, told him what the big deal was and walked out the room.

What was the big fucking deal?

^ It's not nagging, and it's not asking to be called a bitch.

You must have rock-bottom standards for how people treat you, to think that.

We're genearlly okay. Happy marriage. He rarely calles me a bitch but it has happened before. I hate it and it pissed me off. I don't call him names to his face but I do mutter under my breath sometimes that he's a dick!
Normal no? The muttering?

Does he call you names regularly?

Not really. I can count on 1 hand in 13yrs together

A lot of people wake up in a bad mood. Everyone in my house knows if they want a good response, wait until I’ve had time to wake up properly and drink some coffee 😂

So what happened?

Everyone in my house knows if they want a good response, wait until I’ve had time to wake up properly and drink some coffee

You would call someone a bitch and tell them to get off your case for asking you a couple of questions about the plans for the day ahead 15 mins after waking up and while you are drinking your cup of coffee?

I don't know. I've gotten to a stage in my life where the first time someone calls me a bitch is also the last.

He apologised later, but we didn't go out.

Why didn’t you go out?