Surely peoples need for a home is more important than your need to drive your car through the city centre for a 3 hour window each day?
Oh, I totally agree
People need houses. Let's build them in places where the infrastructure is already struggling to cope with the local population, with no thought as to how the extra people will compound an already untenable situation.
Eff all those school children who need to be picked up because they're too little to come home alone/the route is too dangerous/not logistically feasible for someone without a car. Clearly the solution is to pack more of them in so that it's HARDER to pick them up and there's more OF them.
Eff all those people who depend on public transport because they medically or legally can't drive. I mean, you get on a bus, you should expect it to take three times as long as the timetable states, and you should expect being late to work/school/doctor's appointments every time. Eff you for not thinking about that before you made the decision not to drive, and made the decision to live in an area where the public transport is struggling.
Eff those people who are already having to wait a week, two weeks, more, to get an appointment at their local GP. Build more houses! Who cares if that means more people want to use that same local GP? Eff the people who don't have the means to go somewhere else, basically. Or eff the GP for not working 24/7 to meet the demand.
Basically, in case this isn't clear, I think you're ridiculous for thinking that "need more houses" is a good reason to cram more houses in where the locality cannot support more people. Because unless those houses are built to remain empty (which they're obviously not), more houses mean more people. And even from the OP's brief start post, it's clear that the area is already struggling to support the population it already has.
I don't know what the answer is, but I do know that it isn't to cram more sardines into an already packed tin.