We've accepted an offer on our house. DH had agreed that when we sold we'd move into my parents house rent free if necessary (they don't live there atm - it's complicated!) so we had plenty of time to look for a house.
However, ever since we accepted the offer he's been saying he doesn't want to move into my parents place, pay for storage of our stuff etc, it will be a nightmare, so we've been rushing round trying to find a place to live. We've both liked a couple of houses but been outbid, but largely we disagree (he likes quite areas suburban house with garages etc, I prefer something closer to town with walking distance amenities).
Last weekend we saw a house he liked. It's a long way from town so I wasn't keen, but I feel all this pressure about how we have to get somewhere or we will lose the buyer etc. So I agreed we'd put in a low ball bid on Monday and see what happened (our other offers have taken a week or so of back and forth before they accepted - I thought I'd have time to think about this). Anyway, they refused, DH quickly upped the bid (despite my reluctance), and they accepted.
DH celebrated. I cried. DH then got mad at me saying I shouldn't have agreed to bid, and that he'd withdraw our offer of I wanted but he'd 'feel a fool'.
I've spent the week trying to convince myself it's not that bad while DH steams ahead with arranging mortgage etc.
I feel so miserable and stressed about it. I feel so paralysed. I don't know if it's the right house. I don't know if we can get any better if I insist we pull out. I feel awful.