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Living with in laws!

55 replies

Milla11 · 29/09/2017 16:10

So i currently live with DPs 2 sisters, nephew, brother, and his mum and dad. I have a 4 month old. Mostly in my room. I feel so trapped here, we cant afford to rent anywhere but its seriously causing problems, like today i was told to give my baby a boiled EGG as her first food?!?
Dp works so gets out and goes to the gym and doesn't see everything that goes on- everyone just tip toes arouns the brother in case he flips his lid as he usually does!!
Aibu to say either get a place to rent for us, or ill go move in with my mum (he wouldn't come ive already asked)
Thanks for reading

OP posts:
Maelstrop · 29/09/2017 20:21

Go stay at your mum's. Up to him if he follows.

GreenTulips · 29/09/2017 20:53

Your 4 month old shouldn't be having anything other than (breast/formula) milk unless under medical advice.

OP already knows this - don't be condescending

arethereanyleftatall · 29/09/2017 20:56

I would be getting an evening job as soon as dp is home, to save money for my own place.

TroelsLovesSquinkies · 29/09/2017 21:00

I pay £25 a month for the gym, it gives me access whenever they are open. for £20 they do a restricted membership, quiet hours only and weekends here.
Move OP it sounds awful.

RedSkyAtNight · 29/09/2017 21:02

DH pays £19 for his gym, and yes I've seen his paperwork and the amount coming out on the bank statement. There's no particular reason to doubt this element of DP's story.

This seems to be a case of living with OP's in-laws where she is uncomfortable, or living with OP's mum where DP would be uncomfortable. Moving out on their own sounds like the best option to me!

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