Posting on behalf of a friend...
Dearest friend 1 and dearest friend 2 are both struggling with secondary infertility.
Bit of background infor DF1 has 1 DS (age 9) and DF2 had 1 DD (age 5) both have struggled for numerous years to have second child. Both work with DF1 in fairly good job and DF2 has a rewarding job but not as well paid ( adding as relevant).DF2 has recently gone through her first cycle of IVF and had now been dropping comments to DF1 that she should also be looking to go
Down this route and generally giving out unwanted advice. Also commenting to DF1 that she should definitely be able to afford it as she has a much better job then DF2 and they were able to get it done (cost her circa £8k)
DF1 is really fed up with all the comments and after a particularly heavy hammering of comments tonight DF1 is ready to end the friendship, would she be unfair is her worry. And would she then be accused of jealousy?
Wow that was long!