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To hate the words...

118 replies

flownthecoopkiwi · 13/09/2017 20:54

'Spends' as in for spends... it's not even English.

And 'leccy' as in gas and leccy. Oh dear god.

OP posts:
SoConfusedandUpset · 14/09/2017 03:39

The new & very American trend for saying "I feel like" instead of "I think"

Zoella started it I believe and I cannot watch her for that reason alone!

highinthesky · 14/09/2017 03:43

Lol at some of these.

Although I reckon "Netflix and chill" will enter the OED in 2018 Grin

MessyBun247 · 14/09/2017 03:46

Pots - potatoes

Toms - tomatoes

Shabby chic

runsmidgeOMG · 14/09/2017 03:48

Omg OP yesssss !!
Spends is fucking awful... I see it on an popular Facebook group for Holiday planning all the time, people planning their fucking SPENDS arghhhhhh I hate it... it's spending money or holiday money or funds or disposable income JUST NOT SPENDS!!

Thank you for giving me a safe space to rant.
Spends !!! Shudder...

Shockers · 14/09/2017 04:00

I heard someone say (about a child), "I love her to death."

Surely that isn't a good way to feel?

FrancisUnderwood · 14/09/2017 04:02

Pudding
Pud
'plate of food' - John Torode i'm looking at you.
Sanpro
Boc boc is horrendous.
Pregnant
Preggers
Preggo (I don't know why, it's just the formation of the letters to make the word 'preg' and then 'nant'. Makes me shudder, there must be a nicer word we can use!)

SquatBetty · 14/09/2017 04:16

Scrummy - hideously twee, sounds like it came straight out of Enid Blyton.

Hubby/Hunni - just vomit

I like Famalam though - reminds me of the song 'Black Betty'! Might start using it on a regular basis Grin

GinUser · 14/09/2017 04:30

Costly, hubby, partner, pardon and anyone who posts asking for an item (think expensive or high-end) but "less spendy".
Partner, to me, is either someone with whom you are in a business relationship or a member of the same sex. I was very bemused, some years ago, when working abroad in an English-speaking environment, to hear men, in particular, keep referring to their "partner" and thought the firm was composed of mainly homosexuals (until I was enlightened).

justilou1 · 14/09/2017 06:34

What the heck is Spondoolies?

mygorgeousmilo · 14/09/2017 06:40

Cringing in agreement. All of the above

lydiangel83 · 14/09/2017 06:45

What is sanpro and washing the pots?

Poshindevon · 14/09/2017 06:47

I hate the words
Babby/Bab instead of baby
Get go as in "from the getgo"

Shockers · 14/09/2017 06:48

Washing the pots is doing the washing up.

traceyturnblatt · 14/09/2017 06:51

Moist.

My DH speaks German so he says it as "feucht" too.

😷

PollyPelargonium52 · 14/09/2017 06:59

Bits and bobs.

I howled when I moved to the provinces away from London as I was used to hearing odds and ends.

PollyPelargonium52 · 14/09/2017 06:59

Not into washing the pots either.

It sounds so flippin' common!

Worriedaboutboy · 14/09/2017 07:06

I hate 'to get caught pregnant '. You don't catch it!!! 'Igot caught pregnant at 17'. AHHH!

Hate
Bockle for bottle
Hospikal
Famalam
Hun
Bobbins

But some of these are regional and I'm a southerner in the north!!

FreshSet · 14/09/2017 07:14

brekkie
cuppa
like after ever sentence
do you know what im saying?? (ala vikkie polard
americanisms when not american. ie... candy, mom,trashcan ect..

Peregrina · 14/09/2017 07:42

'washing the pots' is regional. DM and DGM, from Yorkshire, used always to refer to it as that.

EdmundCleverClogs · 14/09/2017 07:44

FreshSet, 'mom' isn't an Americanism when used here, it's midlands dialect. 'Candy' really isn't either, well not when speaking of sugary sweets.

poppym12 · 14/09/2017 07:45

Wanky phrases like 'touching base' and 'reaching out'. Angry

JWrecks · 14/09/2017 07:50

I hate when people use the word "gift" as a verb. We already have a perfectly good word for that.

I cannot bear "corporate speak" nonsense like:

"the ask here is" or "that's a big ask" (no, ya bellend, it's a request)
"in the go-forward" (seriously?! have we forgotten the word future? and yes, I genuinely see/hear people intentionally use this. often.)
"please leverage this tool" (why can't I just fucking use it?)
"we're in delivery phase" (no, dolt, we are in production. we are currently making it. we will deliver it when it's complete)
"you have these 4 deliverables" (nope, I have these 4 tasks. my browser doesn't even know that "word")
"we need 4 resources on this" (we are people you monster)

"In the go forward, the big ask is that we leverage our delivery skills to reduce deliverables for our resources."
Fuck you, mate. That means nothing. You've just said absolutely nothing.

WHY on EARTH do corporations feel the need to re-appropriate and redefine and completely make up words? It sounds stupid and infantile, not at all sophisticated or smart. My office's parent company is the worst about this; they constantly completely re-define common words. Every corporate email makes me stabby. Then again, my company is like a farce of corporate life. Every day at work is like a comedy sketch that isn't even funny anymore because it went too far.

The new & very American trend for saying "I feel like" instead of "I think"
@SoConfused OH NO! I do that sometimes! Oh please stop me!! Blush

MuddlingThroughLife · 14/09/2017 07:51

I don't mind most of these.....and am a fan of the word holibobs! My kids never had a boc boc, they had a bokkie lol.

My big thing is grammar such as pacific for specific and should of instead of should have. Also hate text speak and the way some people type the way they speak, for example using wiv for with or nuffink for nothing.

Skittlesss · 14/09/2017 07:58

When people use the wrong word...

I BROUGHT this top today.
I BORROWED him £50.
I've TOOKEN some photos.

Ginfernal · 14/09/2017 07:58

'Boobing' or 'boobed' for breastfeeding