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To ask what the rules are about taking kids out of school?

32 replies

toiletanger · 10/09/2017 16:30

Child not yet 5

Legal/illegal for one or two days to see family?

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GladAllOver · 10/09/2017 16:31

You'd better ask the school. Head teachers tend to interpret the rules differently.

Hoppinggreen · 10/09/2017 16:32

If they aren't 5 they don't legally have to be at school so you can't be fined
Ask school for a term time request form, you will probably get it back unauthorised but it won't matter

toiletanger · 10/09/2017 16:33

If he was 5 wouldn't even think of it only because it's last fortnight I think I may still technically be allowed to ever ...

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Wolfiefan · 10/09/2017 16:33

It's not about legality. It's about whether they will authorise it and whether they will fine you.
I wouldn't. Not unless it can't be avoided. Eg very sick relative. You have lots of holidays and in reception they really do need to settle in.

nocake · 10/09/2017 16:34

You aren't obliged to have your child in school (or being educated) until they're 5 so there's no penalty for taking them out for a few days.

TBH lots of local authorities won't penalise for a couple of days anyway.

toiletanger · 10/09/2017 16:38

Hmm would anyone do it

It's not vital just no childcare

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GladAllOver · 10/09/2017 16:50

Just ask the school!

SprinklesandIcecream · 10/09/2017 16:52

Wolfie how can they fine you if it's not illegal Confused?

somewhereovertherain · 10/09/2017 16:55

Fine only kicks in at 5 days

Becles · 10/09/2017 17:00

If they don't have to be in school till 5 and you take them out, would you be happy if the place was offered to someone else?

Wolfiefan · 10/09/2017 17:01

It's up to each Head to decide how best to proceed. I agree they shouldn't.
Why can't you go another time? Reception children really need to settle.

PurpleMinionMummy · 10/09/2017 17:32

They can't fine you. They may not authorise it but that means sfa really. They also won't offer the place to someone else Hmm

ASauvingnonADay · 10/09/2017 17:35

Legally, they don't have to be in school until 5 so it's fine. No penalty notices.

Alpacaandgo · 10/09/2017 18:00

If under 5 it's fine. I'm taking my 4 year old out for a few days near Christmas. Don't worry about it, it's not like they are in the middle of gcse's or anything!

Maryof1993 · 10/09/2017 18:05

It's not about legality. It's about whether they will authorise it and whether they will fine you.
Of course its about legality. You can only be fined if you commit a crime, go to court, get found guilty and the judge fines you.
Taking a child out of school before they are of legal school age is not a crime, so you won't go to court (or if you did, the judge will just laugh at the council), so you won't get fined.

Wolfiefan · 10/09/2017 18:08

But you will disrupt their settling in. I wouldn't do it.

meditrina · 10/09/2017 18:12

You cannot be fined because they have not reached the compulsory age. However as you have chosen to enrol them, they are still expected to attend regularly (which means 'in accordance with the rules" not 'most of the time').

You can be subject to all other attendance management procedures (including involvement of EWO) other than fines.

Two days as an isolated incident is unlikely to trigger such action. Frequently missing a few days may well do so. It all depends on local policy.

Witsender · 10/09/2017 18:14

If they're not 5 I wouldn't think twice. Tbh I wouldn't be worried even if they were 5, I'd just think about the dining.

Mittens1969 · 10/09/2017 18:14

We took our DD1 out of school for one day in mid September, it was an authorised absence so that she could attend her little sister's Celebration Hearing (day in court when the adoption is finalised).

But I would agree that it's not ideal so soon after the start of Reception.

MyDcAreMarvel · 10/09/2017 18:16

It's not five it's term after the fifth birthday.

PutTheBunnyBackInTheBox · 10/09/2017 18:19

I think it depends on the head/school.

I took my 2 DC (13/14) out at the end of last term, 10 days early, for a holiday. I wrote a letter to the school telling them (not asking Blush) and never heard a thing from them! To be fair it was the last 2 weeks of the year so exams etc were over.

Skarossinkplunger · 10/09/2017 18:34

Ex EWO here. A child is not legally required to be in school until the beginning of the term following their 5th birthdays. So they cannot fine you.

Maryof1993 · 10/09/2017 19:13

You can be subject to all other attendance management procedures (including involvement of EWO) other than fines.
Don't be daft. They're not going to send the EWO after a four year old child who doesn't have to be at school

meditrina · 10/09/2017 20:00

Don't be daft. They're not going to send the EWO after a four year old child who doesn't have to be at school

No, not for an isolated incident of 2 days they're not. But if it's frequent short absences, or a single much longer one, then yes they might. Depends on school and LEA policy.

notanotherNC · 10/09/2017 20:24

If a child is not of compulsory school age, the term after they turn 5, then it is not compulsory they attend school. The clue is in the name.

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