Ok, DP and I have two children (relevant?) He works away for a few weeks at a time. He's from a country that needs a visa to travel pretty much anywhere. Get a call from him today telling me that I need to send him a list of documents as he's going to Australia on holiday and needs to apply for a visa. I mention that him going on holiday (without us) should warrant some kind of conversation. He says "I don't care what you think, I'm going."
Now he feels that I'm unreasonable because I didn't Iike the way he approached this.
Had he called and opened with "I'm thinking of visiting my friend in Australia, what do you think?" Then I would have been more open to the idea. A discussion would have been had regarding dates, child care while he's away, would it clash with any of my work commitments etc. A bit miffed that he wants to go away without us but we've both traveled to visit family before without the other so not totally out of the ordinary for us.
So, AIBU for not liking the way he approached this? Should I have just said "oh, ok" and not voiced any opinion on the matter? He's adamant that I'm in the wrong but I just can't see it.