After a tie with my 13 year old daughter as I found out she had almost been having sex with a boy at school, I agreed with my ex husband she should live with him for a while as her behaviour as become disgusting. This was a week ago, the night after the argument he sent me a text stating that he was st the solicitors enquiringly about getting our contact order in place which I have had for five years where he has 8 overnight stays which he also has my sons 9,10. I was absolutely mortified and felt he had taken advantage of a difficult situation. Since then he has cut off all access for me it's my daughter, I have not seen or heard from her. I told the school of the situation, and today they rang to say he had her taped stating she wants no contact with me. I am absolutely devastated, no words can describe this pain. He threatened to gain access of my sons if I sought legal action. He promised he sort out her behaviour but instead as spoilt her and is promising her puppies etc. I have had a very good relationship with her up to three months ago where the school bad boy got involved with her. I feel she's being bribed by him and she's too vulnerable to see it. To top it off I have an ex mother in law who hated me from day one and has already tried to poison against me. I am so scared I have lost her, I am pulling my hair out with stress.