I have young adult children and so this is a frequent conversation ( this age questions). My views are more pragmatic. We are Christians if we celebrate Christmas and Easter. Those are Christian holidays. My dc say that religion was invented to control uneducated masses. I dont disagree; it has been used as such. The Invisible Diety in the Sky is REAL?? Idk. But its nice to hope. However, if someone posted a "ghost story" thread request, i think there would be posts.
There is no doubt that religion had been using and abusive. However, GOOD things can also be gained from it. Many "church ladies" raise funds that help those in need.
We lived in a place that used religion as a stick and the people used it as a measurement similar to school gate dominating. So i taught my dc at home about the 10 cpmmandments and 7 deadly sins. I was picky and choosey about my version of religion BUT I wanted them to understand that there is a place in society for religion.
Think about this: nature fills in a vacuum. What shall we replace religion with if it washes out completely? Governments? Boy bands?
People are being blown up and run over in the name of religion every day. Obviously, religion is flourishing in some cultures and those of us who are some sort of Christian are not beloved.
As a mid-century, non-judgemental, loving person with a chronic illness and "not as long as i want" life expectancy, my fervant hope is that instead doing away with religion, we mold it into something that comforts and aids our society.
We used to use religion because of fears of afterlife, i DO believe that we are in purgatory: a miserable place btwn heaven and hell. If there is a place worse than this, i would do what it takes to stay out of it!
But i would like religion to help us in our current life. Life is too big, frightening and complicated for me not to pray to Someone at times. I do not expect an answer but it helps me center myself and find the peace to solve my earthly problems. Before anyone tells me yoga does the same, i agree, but don't all major civilisations have religions?
We are a growing, evolving society, we can grow and evolve our religious/spiritual side as well. I do not like politicians, clergy are often difficult to defend, but i think that my life is enhanced by peace, love, hope, charity, patience and kindness. We need to learn these virtues some place. If not in religion, where?