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To think this is a good enough dinner..

174 replies

cutthegraa · 01/09/2017 17:35

Okay, so dinner for the family was (6 year old and toddler);

  • unlimited homemade lentil soup
  • unlimited warm crusty bread and butter
  • unlimited cooked ham

So the 6 year old had 2 big bowls, lots of shredded ham added and few bits of bread and butter

I think that's a perfectly good dinner for a school night (especially given I work)

MIL thinks it's not enough at all....AIBU?

OP posts:
onemorecakeplease · 01/09/2017 20:56

Yum! We quite often have sweet potato soup and cheese scones but yours sounds lovely
Like the ham with it too will do that next week

lavenderpekins · 01/09/2017 21:04

I think I would offer some kind of dessert with that..? But the meal sounds lovely and I have boys!

MumW · 01/09/2017 21:26

Sounds lovely and has reminded me we haven't had homemade soup for ages.

Cranks cookbook has a lovely tomato and lentil soup which we often have with bread and cheese. Preferably grated mature cheddar melted on top of the soup and scooped up with the bread.

helpfulperson · 01/09/2017 21:44

To all those saying 'what vegetables does it have' lentils are a vegetable.

It sounds fab.

Walkingdead11 · 01/09/2017 21:58

They are a legume, not technically a vegetable. Still kudos to the OP, my 6 yr old would be on the phone to childline if I gave her lentil soup.

Lostmyunicorn · 01/09/2017 22:12

Iamyourequal
Total genius - I love "bits of soup"
Mine are keen on lentil soup, the older one so much so that he has learnt how to make it (he's 8).

helpfulperson · 01/09/2017 22:14

According to both the USFD and the NHS they count towards your 5 a day though.

ilovepixie · 01/09/2017 22:32

Could you use that recipe in a soup maker?

Mrskeats · 01/09/2017 22:38

We have homemade minestrone sometimes with fancy bread it's lovely
Has pasta in so it's filling
Sounds a lovely dinner op
Take no notice of silly mil

Bluesrunthegame · 01/09/2017 22:41

This is a lovely dinner and I would like some now please.

I often fed my children on lots of soup and crusty bread. Sometimes I did just one bowl of soup followed by jacket potatoes with cheese if it was a cold winter's evening. My ds1 called it 'poor people's dinner' but I don't know why. Everyone seemed to eat all of this with no arguments, for some reason, and no one was hungry after. Other dinners, lots of discussion.

Mulch · 01/09/2017 22:42

Sounds lovely

Joinourclub · 01/09/2017 22:45

It's fine

EvilDoctorBallerinaDuckKeidis · 01/09/2017 22:46

I had this from my aunt. DD had school dinners, so really couldn't face much when she came in. Apparently a bowl of soup, some bread and some kind of cake for pudding wasn't enough. Hmm

The phrase you're searching for is: "Oh, do fuck off, dear. " 😂

AldiAisleOfCrap · 01/09/2017 22:48

It's a nice lunch , but it's not dinner.

AldiAisleOfCrap · 01/09/2017 22:49

Or high tea .

Gileswithachainsaw · 01/09/2017 22:49

If it's eaten at dinnertime it is dinner Confused

EvilDoctorBallerinaDuckKeidis · 01/09/2017 22:50

OP I was like that about soup, but instead of lentil it was oxtail.

AldiAisleOfCrap · 01/09/2017 22:50

Giles then no it's not a good enough dinner. But still sounds delicious.

Gileswithachainsaw · 01/09/2017 22:52

What's not good enough about it though?

A thick filling soup As much as they want, meat and bread.

I fail to see how it's not substantial

Gileswithachainsaw · 01/09/2017 22:53

If you throw the ham in it, and maybe didn't totally blend the carrots it's pretty much a stew

AldiAisleOfCrap · 01/09/2017 22:54

There is not enough "chew" for dinner. It would be filling, but psychologically disappointing.

Gileswithachainsaw · 01/09/2017 22:58

Unless you had porridge for breakfast and a shake for lunch there's plenty of "chew time" the other two meal times. Teas don't have to be heavy all the time

TheRealBiscuitAddict · 01/09/2017 23:02

Lentil soup wouldn't be to my personal taste but other soups would and I have been known to serve home made soup for dinner. Hell on a really rough day I have been known to serve Heinz tinned tomato soup for dinner. Wink Grin

For anyone who says that that's not dinner, that is a personal opinion only.

ponderingprobably · 01/09/2017 23:03

Bread is 'chewy'. If you'd had Shepherd's Pie, that is not very 'chewy' but definitely considered a substantial dinner.

BitOutOfPractice · 01/09/2017 23:04

YABU. It should've been crispy bacon to sprinkle on the soup.

Seriously that sounds like a cracking tea.

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