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To not want DHs family to come stay 2 weeks before my due date

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Pooshweens · 31/08/2017 21:28

Just that really. DH booked in for his cousin, wife and kids to stay with us for a night over a weekend less than 2 weeks before my due date

I'm 34 weeks pregnant, fed up, grumpy, knackered, and don't want to be entertaining, cooking, making beds etc in my state, let alone in a few weeks

DH already moved it once so he could go to a rugby match so it can't be that big a deal to him but now he's now got the hump that I don't want them to stay. They live too far away to come for lunch

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Winterview · 01/09/2017 16:52

YANBU to cancel their visit. When I was heavily pregnant I needed my space and privacy. I would have hated a houseful of guests even if I had no chores to do. And what if you go into labour early? If anyone stays they need to be people YOU want there, not distant relatives.

Ttbb · 01/09/2017 17:07

no. For all you know you might go into labour early!

sarebear1983 · 01/09/2017 21:18

I totally get how you feel. If you feel like going out for abit and socialising, that's one thing but when I was that far gone, my home was my little peaceful sanctuary and I just didn't have the energy to have people up in my space. I had days when I just didn't want to see anyone. Your partner should be helping you feel as comfortable as possible in the coming weeks, not getting arsey with you for something that is completely natural

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