I have posted more times than I can count about abusive cunt exH.
We've just been through a year of court, culminating in non mol order, live with order (lives with me) and set contact times.
These are:
Every other weekend from school (3pm) Friday, until 5pm Sunday.
Wednesdays 'from school' until 6pm.
DS is in last week of nursery and starting school in Sept.
we've had 4 weeks so far of the order.
He knows it's 3:30pm on Wednesdays, as it's 'from school' hours.
He pushes boundaries constantly. Absolutely constant.
Went to collect DS today, turns out he has called nursery and said he will be collecting at 10am tomorrow.
I know nothing about this.
When they asked if he'd run it by me, he told them he has parental responsibility and rights and it's his day and he can do what he wants. He doesn't need permission from me.
NURSery have suggested that they call him and tell him that unless I give permission (ie he asks me!) that they aren't able to release DS until 3:30 as per arrangement.
Part of me thinks I'm being hugely unreasonable because other than wasting a day of nursery fees/lunch fees that I didn't need to spend, it doesn't actually impact on me, but I feel like this is one more way that he is pushing the boundaries and if I don't draw a line he will just push more (this is what he does - used to take him and refuse to return him because his rights, used to threaten to collect from nursery without permission, used to threaten to not return him etc etc etc)
I'd he'd have said he wanted to take him out and run it by me it would have been fine but he can't just unilaterally decide? Or can he?