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Am I being ungrateful?

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Fianceechickie · 27/08/2017 08:51

Back in May, my MIL mentioned that her sister had a villa in Spain and they might go. We haven't much money this year so asked if she'd mind if we used it as well (another week obviously) and how much she'd charge. She said yes and would just charge us a bit for electricity and the cleaner etc. Fantastic! Got our flights booked. She sent us a couple of pics, looked okay, MIL said was nice and, given she usually has pretty high standards, we thought it sounded fine! Two days before we travelled though, DH's auntie contacted us to say she was charging €200 for villa. A bit more than electric costs we thought but still cheap for a week on the Costa Blanca in August. We also found out from MIL who had just stayed here that there was no air con and we started to worry a bit! Anyway, arrived on Tuesday night to find that, not only was there no air con but ceiling fans barely work, it was in an awful cramped, built up area, the bathroom stank, all the dirty washing was piled up from MIL's stay, couple of dead cockroaches, furniture on its last legs, beds awful, hubbie has bed bug bites (it's also terrible for midges around here). It's even smaller than we thought and the fridge won't stay cold as the seal has gone ages ago and it's not been defrosted in forever, tv doesn't work (not that we'd use it much anyway). It's obviously not serviced (I think she may have an agreement with an ex pay up the road cos he did let us in when we arrived but not seen him since. We have to give him the €200. ) The only saving grace is that it has its own pool which seems fine! We're making the best of it but DH suffering in the heat especially and isn't well with it, the kids are stoical but I can't help feeling annoyed that it was made out to be nice and in fact it's not at all and we've brought the children here! We would never have come had we known. She couldn't rent it out to fee paying holidaymakers. Thank god we have a car so can get to beach (which is 20 mins away!)

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ThumbWitchesAbroad · 27/08/2017 16:51

If your DH's bites are mostly ankles and feet, they could be from sandflies. I get bitten dreadfully by sandflies, really really badly, whereas other people I'm with don't seem to be as badly affected.

But I'd still take all the precautions with respect to bed bugs, fleas etc. as well, just in case. And get him some calamine/antihistamine cream for his feet because that works better (cooling) than just antihistamine cream.

Fianceechickie · 27/08/2017 16:58

I think it was just that we wouldn't have come had we known. It's not just the aircon, it's the cockroaches, so many things not working properly or broken, noticed no smoke alarm and all the windows have fixed grills, and there's no back door so worrying about fire risk now too! have only just told MIL about the fee. Not what her sister had told her!

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budgiegirl · 27/08/2017 17:12

think it was just that we wouldn't have come had we known. It's not just the aircon, it's the cockroaches, so many things not working properly or broken, noticed no smoke alarm and all the windows have fixed grills, and there's no back door so worrying about fire risk now too!

It doesn't sound ideal ! The fire thing would worry me. Unusual to have a villa with only one door, I would have thought.

Did you ask MIL why she didn't mention the issues to you after she visited?

Fianceechickie · 27/08/2017 17:57

DH spoke to her. I wasn't v we'll just before we came away. She did mention the a/c then but not the other stuff. Probably thought no point by then!

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Fianceechickie · 28/08/2017 10:54

Spoke to MIL last night. Her sister had also asked her for unexpected €250 (she normally gives her 100) to be given to this guy down the road and when she got here it was filthy and messy and she had to spend first day cleaning. She had been appalled when she got here and didn't know what to say to us. She'd last been 5 years ago and it had aircon then but this bloke down the road told her sister to to take it out to cut the electric bill if she was renting it out otherwise people would leave it on all day! We think she may owe him money and us handing it over to him is paying him back for something. There's certainly been nothing done for it though, either prior to MIL visit or ours.

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Jux · 28/08/2017 11:23

Then your family and MIL and aunt can have a little chat with her; are there mosquito nets at the windows and doors, as then you can have them all open which could help when there's no aircon. Otherwise suggest she gets some.

I wonder what's in the locked cupboard! Is stuff being protected from the man or from you!

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 28/08/2017 14:17

Hopefully your MIL will ask her sister what the hell was going on then, and if this bloke is supposed to be doing stuff to the villa, you can both put her straight on that score!

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