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To throw water over my son to get him up in the mornings?

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PurpleLostPrincess · 31/03/2007 09:18

We've hit the teenage years with a bang! DS is nearly 13 and he is growing at an amazing rate (he's 5foot 7inches with size 12 feet). He used to wake up at 6am without fail, he was just one of those early risers! His bedtime is 9.30pm and he really struggles to sleep. We've redecorated his room to make it more comfortable with a new bed and we do him horlicks at bedtime...

It doesn't seem to matter what we do, he just won't get up in the mornings!! I get up at 6.30am and wake him but its usually 7.15 by the time he can be bothered to get up properly. He has always been a nightmare in the mornings and I've just accepted that its a boy thing but I try to encourage him by putting up a schedule of what needs doing and when. If he doesn't get ready, he makes his sister late for school and me late for work. (he has also had detentions for lateness).

Lately, I've been putting my head through the door and throwing about half a cup of water all over him and his bed - certainly gets him up! Is this unreasonable? (he doesn't seem to think so).

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junbean · 29/10/2023 01:07

Teenagers need more sleep. I've read as much as 9 hours. It's a biologically thing not something he can control. Turn wifi off at 8 and get him to bed earlier.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/10/2023 01:28

As someone who isn’t a natural morning person I think these methods are horrible.
The last thing someone who struggles to wake up needs is a short sharp shock.

Doesn’t he need something like one of those gradual alarms to wake him gently?

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/10/2023 01:31

slowreader · 31/03/2007 12:45

Yes but why do they find getting into bed so difficult if they need all this sleep. I am so tired of Kerrang at 10.30 and I was not put on this planet to nag. In this house we need a stair lift with added shackles and chains to get ds up and one of those useful Wallace and Gromit getting out of bed machines for mornings. It is wearing me out being the substitute.

Teenage delayed sleep patterns are a thing. It’s well researched and documented. We really shouldn’t have them at school at the hours they go, it should start and finish later than a working day, not earlier.

Also, people with ADHD can struggle to change states from waking to sleeping, and sleeping to waking. Transitions.

Tighginn · 29/10/2023 02:22

What I'm I missing here?!?😮

Sparklesocks · 29/10/2023 02:24

This is one old thread wow

coxesorangepippin · 29/10/2023 02:25

This is hilarious

Whatever works, op

PurpleLostPrincess · 29/10/2023 10:58

Hilarious that this has been revived, and that I’m being accused of being abusive!! 🧐 how times have changed!

DS is nearly 30 years old, married with 2 beautiful kids and has a successful career. We laugh when we talk about these days because he says when his DS (now 7yo) gets to this stage, he will probably do the same… he doesn’t consider it assault and is apparently not traumatised!

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