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To think Hayden is a boys' name!? DH thinks girls'!?

64 replies

Swooning2017 · 22/08/2017 00:44

Our little one arrived last week. My current favourite is Hayden, but DH thinks it's a girls' name. If we go for it, he wants Haydn (but this is pronounced Hi-don but says he will say it as Hay-don Shock)

Who is right!?

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WeirdAndPissedOff · 22/08/2017 00:46

My only experience is "celebs", both I've seen both male and female with that name.

MyheartbelongstoG · 22/08/2017 00:48

Unisex, Haydn is silly, he will be spelling it for the rest of his life. These drives me insane.

Its pronounced hay den. Lovely name and congrats Flowers

JessieMcJessie · 22/08/2017 00:49

Haydn Gwynn female actress

Threenme · 22/08/2017 00:49

I think your husband is right both I'm thinking of are girls sorry!

Threenme · 22/08/2017 00:51

Why don't you just have Aidan for a boy?

LogicalPsycho · 22/08/2017 00:51

I love it for a girl, not so keen on a boy not helpful sorry

RightOnTheEdge · 22/08/2017 00:51

There is a boy Hayden in my DC's school.
The other one I've heard of is Hayden Panettiere the actress.
I think that in the UK it's mostly a Boys name though.

steff13 · 22/08/2017 00:51

It's unisex:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hayden_Panettiere

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hayden_Christensen

However, the people I think of when I think of the name are girls.

soupforbrains · 22/08/2017 00:52

I would say that in real life I think of Hayden as a boys name. But the only celebs I know with the name are female. I'm not familiar with anyone using the spellings Haydn for a first name though.

Perhaps in the US it's more a female name as the ones I can think of are American.

e1y1 · 22/08/2017 00:54

Hayden is a boys name.

Cavender · 22/08/2017 00:56

I know it as a boys name.

Swooning2017 · 22/08/2017 00:58

We don't like Aidan.

Hm, unisex? Maybe we're both right then Grin

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steff13 · 22/08/2017 01:02

babycenter.com calls it gender-neutral

SaucyJack · 22/08/2017 01:06

Haydn isn't silly Hmm

The composer was around quite some years before Star Wars or Heroes.

Seeingadistance · 22/08/2017 01:14

The only Hayden's I know are boys, but I have heard of it as a girls' name.

Congratulations!

Seeingadistance · 22/08/2017 01:15

Ignore that dodgy apostrophe!

LuLuuuuuuu · 22/08/2017 01:15

Ah Jessie beat me to it ,

Haydn Gwynn is the only one I have ever heard with the name .

glitterfarts · 22/08/2017 01:15

Girls name. The boys I know are Haydn and the girls Hayden. Pronounced the same.

lazydog · 22/08/2017 01:15

I know it's unisex but I've only ever met boys with that name, and loads of them. It's really common popular around where we live.

ShoesHaveSouls · 22/08/2017 01:17

It's both. The first boy I had a crush on was called Hadrian. Which is definitely a boy's name.

Italiangreyhound · 22/08/2017 01:20

Hayden is a boy's name.

www.babycenter.com/baby-names-hayden-462585.htm

That has become used as a girl's name...

nameberry.com/babyname/Hayden

I love singer Hayden Panettiere from Nashville,
and I love this song...

But really Hayden is a boys name made popular for girls too, because naming girls with masculine sounding names is very trendy, and has been for a while, in a way that one would not name a boy with a feminine sounding name, at the moment!

Ginandplatonic · 22/08/2017 01:25

It's a boys name in Australia, I know quite a few, all male. There are some US female celebrities with the name, but IRL where I am, only boy.

4691IrradiatedHaggis · 22/08/2017 01:26

I associate Hayden as a boy's name. Home and Away many years ago, Pippa and Michael's son/stepson (I think?)

SuperBeagle · 22/08/2017 01:26

It's technically a masculine name, but it has some famous female namesakes like Hayden Panettiere, so for that reason, it could easily be used for a girl without many people giving this Hmm expression.

It hasn't quite made it to Madison or Meredith status yet, where you'd be mad to name a boy a name that was originally masculine.

4691IrradiatedHaggis · 22/08/2017 01:27

It's a boys name in Australia,

Boom. Cross post, my Home and Away post fits with that. Smile