As we both had a (rare) early finish today, this morning I suggested to DH that we could go for a drink at a pub this afternoon with our puppy to spend some time together and get the puppy out. (who is going through a difficult stage at the moment and needs socialising as much as possible)
he text me early afternoon and said there was a push from work that a few guys were going, did i want to join, where we would have to sit outside with the dog. All fine - turned up and as i parked it started raining heavy - so i left the dog in the car and went inside. I said to DH i would go straight home with the dog and leave the boys to it, but DH pestered me to stay. I had one drink (30mins) whilst more and more guys turned up, then said i needed to take the dog home as he was left in the car.
DH had just been bought another round, so had a whole beer to finish. I felt guilty being the nagging wife so said he should stay, but what were plans for dinner. By this time there were about 20 people there and friends just arriving - and talk of this being a big drinking night between them. I got to the car park and got a bit pissed off really. We were supposed to be spending time together and now its another boys drinking night. He said to take the dog home and then come back out to the pub - but i don't really want to sit with all his work mates as the only female there, and its not fair on the dog who has been alone all day whilst we have been at work. Plus one if us needs to drive.
Now he is at the pub with his mates and I'm angry sitting on the couch.