If a man has 5 Snapchat chats, active in the last month, all with women, none of whom his partner knows of... how dodgy is this? None of the names appear in WhatsApp or text logs, only Snapchat being used for these.
Some backstory- None of the usual clues for cheating, everything (apparently) fine in relationship, however, has had form for being morally ambiguous in previous relationships and has a mildly sordid side he likes to keep for himself. This has been mostly harmless, however now with Snapchat I am thinking twice. He works away Mon - Thurs all over the country, in his company's branch office in that area for anywhere from 1 - 12 weeks. He goes around most of them, so knows the people working there in that capacity. 90% of the people working in these offices are women.
The doubt originated bout 6 months ago when I was looking for a website he'd visited on his phone in his history, and came across some porn and Facebook pages of profiles of women (he has a profile, which he had reactivated after a long break, with only 6 close friends and family as friends - but says he never uses, and isn't interested in). I also looked at Snapchat (because, obvs) and there were women's names in the log but obviously no chats as they expire. Unpleasant, not worryingly so at this point, but has sown a tiny seed from the doubt tree. So when I saw he was active on Facebook last week, when he was away with work in his hotel room, I resolved to have a look when he came back. See paragraph 1.
What does the Mumsnet oracle think?