To ask him to stay awake?

[Rainraingoawayagain]

My DH naps for 4 hours everyday (not on weekends) and it's getting on my nerves!
I tried telling him I don't like it but he does it anyway and I don't like being a nag so gave up trying to keep him up. He Work's 5am to 2.30pm mon- fri.aibu to ask him to spend time with me and his child ? Relationship is fine in all other ways just wish he would make a little effort. I wouldn't mind a couple of times a week but it's daily. He has no health problems.

Going to try have another talk about this later

I could easily get 8 hrs a night and then have a 2-3 hr nap a day, I'm someone who loves to be asleep, my health is fine, I'm not depressed.
However I know that's not ok to do with children and a husband so I don't very often. He needs to stop being selfish!

Some people need more sleep than others. You said yourself hes miserable and tired if he doesnt have tbis nap. I think you are being unreasonable. Sounds like its how much sleep he genuinely needs

He doesn't need 11 hours sleep.

He said he will try and has stuck to it today lol ! Horray! :) hope it sticks

Hope he sticks to it op

I know that its going against the majority but he should get himself checked for diabetes or thyroid problems.