So background-- DP and I have been together 2 years. I am unemployed at the minute and homeless as a result of this so I stay with DP. I cannot stay at other family for various reasons not valid to this thread. The plan is when I get a job, hopefully if my interview this weekend works out, then DP and I will move into a new place together. (He currently shares an apartment with a cousin).
So last night DP had some upsetting news that his grandmother who lives in Asia was robbed of all her money 10k+ by a man posing as a policeman so in her elderly state being threatened by 'police' she gave them what she was told she owed.
DP feels sick at this obviously as she is old, now with no money, all family live in the UK now and they need to get money to her asap.
So due to having a lot going on, he's asked me to stay elsewhere this morning. Now I know he's very stressed but AIBU to think that if we are to move out together within the next few months, then he should be wanting me around in situations like this and that we should be able to share the same space when he is upset.
When were both on a tenancy he won't be able to ask me to stay elsewhere for the night. So I don't know how to feel that he's done it today when we practically live together (been staying with him 4 months).
He's done this occasionally before when there's been family problems.