like everything, really it is about balance. I kind of envy people who talk about old age like a certainty- several of my closest and dearest friends died in quick succession when I was in my late teens /early twenties. I've taken from that, after a few years of living recklessly, that life is about balancing living for now with living for the future.
Squirrel a bit a way, even a few pounds, if you can. But never squirrel away large amounts at the expense of enjoying the here and now.
I have a couple of friends who live miserably frugal lives in pursuit of a luxurious old age and it just seems incredibly arrogant to assume that is a given.
I earn a fairly average salary, so my compromise is not spending touch on material goods - I don't have a fancy car or loads of fancy schmancy technology or expensive clothes. But I do have an 18% of salary pension contribution and make mortgage overpayments. And we also enjoy life - theatre trips, hobbies, parties etc. I also work around school hours so get a happy balance between work and kids. Rather all of that than the latest Audi or whatever.
balance, it's all about balance.
I can't imagine wanting to retire early and loaf about playing golf though. I love my job. My grandparents kept working (on a consultancy basis) into their 80s and I hope to do similar if health allows. I'm glad my mum drilled into me to aim for a career I found interesting and fulfilling (and I feel very lucky that despite lots of tragedies and set backs in my twenties) I have found one