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About dsis hen weekend?

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olaflikeswarmhugs · 04/07/2017 19:17

I just feel so gutted at not being able to go I think I'm feeling unreasonably hard done by.

Dsis is getting married next year. I will be on my final placement as a student nurse so will have to take time off for the wedding (it's not local).

She has just started planning her hen weeken d and she wants to go to spain for 4 days. The first week of said placement. And it's going to cost around £700 including spending money. Which is way out my price range.

I've told her I don't be able to go as it's after my annual leave for uni and out my price range. I stupidly hoped she would say well why don't we go the week earlier and find cheaper accommodation. But she just said ok well if you can't come you can't come.

I know that just because I would do it for her doesn't mean she should have to do do it for me and I know I should never expect her to change all her plans to suit me but I'm just so gutted.

OP posts:
rookiemere · 06/07/2017 16:44

OP I really wouldn't be busting a gut to get there for part of the hen do. Instead take her out for afternoon tea or cocktails with just the two of you.

That way she gets the hen do she wants and you get to spend special time with her before her wedding and you both get a nice celebration together.

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