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Is my neighbour BU? Noise complaint!!

86 replies

Sweetheartyparty76 · 02/07/2017 11:43

Hi,
We a couple in our early 40's with an 8 month old DD. Almost 2 years ago we moved into a bungalow on a quiet, fairly upmarket all bungalow cul-de-sac. The vast majority of the inhabitants are 50+ and our direct neighbours are about 50-60.
I'm currently on ML but my partner works shifts so sometimes leaves at 5am (this may be relevant).
Yesterday we received a letter from the council stating that they have had a noise complaint report on 28th June and the claimant is keeping a record of noise disturbances and perhaps using an app.
That day my DH was on the early shift so worked from 5.30am to 5.30pm leaving at 5am. I was with my DD all day in the house as the weather was rubbish. We don't have parties obviously and our DD has her bedtime at 7pm so we're as quiet as mice after this. During the day we don't make an unreasonable noises. We have a dog but he very, very rarely barks.
I can only think that the complaint came from our nearest neighbours. My DH doesn't have a very good relationship with them and they have been mutually ignoring each other whereas I've been staying civil.
Not long after we moved in, they asked us not to park on our drive when DH is on earlies as it wakes them up (their bedroom window is a few feet away from our drive). They also asked us to stop using our gate as that is also next to their window. We politely declined to move our car but we stopped using the gate as much. Relations soured completely a year ago when we installed a fence a few feet higher than the original to give our garden some privacy. They came out and started shouting that although it was discussed they never agreed to it. The new fence was built on our land and the original still marks out the boundary.
That's it really. There is no proof that they were the ones who made the complaint but I can't imagine who else it could be. We are just a normalish family, how much noise can me make with a young baby? It all so ludicrous

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wheatchief · 02/07/2017 18:37

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Luncharmstrong · 02/07/2017 18:39

There's a strong chance it's your dog. Many dog owners have no appreciation of just how noisy their dog is to others.
My friend thinks her dog is not that noisy.
He's a barking nightmare

OfficerVanHalen · 02/07/2017 18:41

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Sweetheartyparty76 · 02/07/2017 19:04

I can assure you it isn't the dog Lunch. He's incredibly docile and old. He doesn't get left alone very much either as I'm at home mostly and we take him round our IL's when we go out.

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abbsisspartacus · 02/07/2017 19:13

My neighbour is a taxi driver his last car was a nightmare to start in the morning plus he had a night driver who would bring it back around four we lived with it

Sweetheartyparty76 · 03/07/2017 22:04

Just to update you all, we phoned the EHO at the council. Our neighbours phoned to enquire if our car noises were unreasonable so not an official complaint yet. The council sent the letter in error. We managed to get our points across and the EHO confirmed that we were not causing unreasonable noise disturbances.

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blueskyinmarch · 04/07/2017 05:49

That's a good outcome.

bellabasset · 04/07/2017 10:34

There are no longer any normal hours in our economy. Providing your dh does not put on loud music, slam doors or rev his car I cannot see what is unreasonable about his behaviour.

Perhaps tell your neighbours that your husband also wishes he did not have to start work so early!

mistermagpie · 04/07/2017 10:42

I work for a council and monitor the work of our antisocial noise team. We're in Scotland so the law might be different, but here what is covered under antisocial behaviour legislation in relation to noise nuisance is incredibly tight. Pretty much the only thing that would be covered, based on what you have said, is the dog barking. You have said that doesn't happen much anyway so it won't be that. Car doors and gates opening etc are not enforceable noise nuisances, although we would potentially refer parties to mediation in relation to these issues if they can't be resolved.

It sounds like you're neighbours are just being a bit petty and have been given advice by the council. We do that too, but no action would be taken if the situation is as you describe it.

JennyOnAPlate · 04/07/2017 10:51

I'm glad you got that outcome op; your neighbour is clearly unreasonable!

Our neighbour has made a couple pointed comments about the noise of DH's car in the mornings (he leaves for work at 7am) and to be honest I've just ignored it. There's nothing we can actually do about it short of DH being late for work!

Kickhiminthenuts · 04/07/2017 10:56

I was just about to post to say my car insurance is invalid if my cars not parked on the drive.
So tell them your very sorry, you know its early but it could be worse, it could be them off to work!

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