Aibu due to DH being selfish

[Clarabelle39]

DH has a hobby that takes him out during the week and weekends. I don't mind but at times it involves drinking my main objection is the wasted next day. He doesn't spend time with out DC we have 3. He is a great dad but I'm really disappointed in him and his selfishness. But he says it's all in my head which I know isn't the case.

How is it that some women are so bloody conditioned into man that doesn't actually abuse me = great dad.

Being a biological father is piss easy. Being a dad is a privilege and actually involves parenting the child you have created. This is evidenced by sensible women who leave the useless sperm donor and choose a decent man who is worthy of being a dad.

How often do you get to do your "hobbies" and piss it up OP? I'm betting somewhere close to never. Why would that be? Because you have responsibilities? Guess what, so does he.

He. Is. Not. A. Great. Dad.