I have two friends , lets call them T and C. We have been good friends since childhood.
As expected, we have all got our own lives now and are busy with our own things but have made a pretty decent effort to stay in touch especially after one of the girls mums died suddenly a few years ago.
Anyhow it was mentioned by C few months ago that we might arrange for a night out end of June. I said 'great, I'd be up for it. Let me know'. C said that she would need to speak to T re a date but would get back to me.
Both T and C have been in contact with me last few weeks about stuff unrelated to night out. Heard nothing about night out, assumed it didn't suit and didn't want either to them to feel obligated so didn't mention it.
Typically T only contacts me when she wants something, C is a bit better at keeping in contact. They both know I've had a bit of tough time over the past wee while (relationship breakdown, injured foot, sick family member - all good now) and was looking forward to a night.
Cue tonight, have seen both of them 'checked into' the pub on Facebook. They've clearly gone on ahead without me. This happened last time too and when I mentioned it (in a jokey sorta way) I got told 'You are more than welcome on the next one' and now this...
I appreciate it's a bit of a trivial thing to be fuming about but I am. Torn between taking the moral high ground and saying nothing, saying something or just deleting and blocking...
Any advice or views would be greatly appreciated.
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littleme2017 · 29/06/2017 19:33
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