I hesitate to comment but I feel I must. I'm American, from a country that, to me, is over the top on its appreciation of the military.
To me, this appreciation and adoration can hamper efforts to investigate whether they're truly being the best they can be, whether they're doing things legally (torture), equally (unequal treatment of black/minority/women officers), and morally sound (such as invasion of countries due to some threat, but ignoring a significant threat from a different country, destabilising a region without any plan for making this better). I wish the politicians, on both sides in my country, didn't constantly whip up this excitement and exaultion of the military, because its doing more harm than good. I think more people at home are become wise to this, especially after the disaster of the Iraq war.
I remember 9/11. I was 14. I remember asking my mom why we were bombing Afghanistan, considering the people responsible were from Saudi, had been funded by some Saudi based groups, and was part of an overall terrorist organisation that we actually funded and supported in the 1980s to rid Russia (USSR) from the Middle East. When we had the opportunity to stop them before they became a serious problem. Why we were destabilising an entire country (and region), creating a huge refuge problem, for a terrorist attack. This is precisely what the terrorists wanted.
And then we kept calling Saudi Arabia our friends and allies, when they've known to harbour some of the people we're looking for. It seemed ill planned, and just like some strange sense of revenge. And it cost many young men and women their lives.
I remember the propaganda after 9/11. I call it propaganda because it could be compared to the WWII propaganda I've seen in history books. About how they don't like our freedoms (whatever that means), our society, how we need to protect ourselves from them, how this group means to destabilise us, so it makes perfect sense for us to destabilise AN ENTIRE REGION. They're jealous of how great we are, and we need to strike back because no one hurts America on America's soil.
Do I appreciate what they military do? Of course, but it doesn't mean I'm wrong or stupid to be dubious of the AFD, or at home its called Veterans Day. At the end of May we have Memorial Day. I do think its a big recruitment tool, I have friends in all parts of the military. Memorial Day in the US is right when our high school students are graduating, and those who cannot afford to go to Uni are contemplating their choices. Then this big event about how great these people are, how they're heros, etc.. They see a huge boost in recruitment in all parts of the military. The military complex in the US is large. Its our largest output of spending, when we have some of the highest rates of poverty (we're deplorable about child poverty), literacy, and homeless vets. Most of the money in the military is wasted, on these large weapons projects that we never need, or use. Yet, corporations make loads of money, and continue to whip up the appreciation and pride of us having these large weapons.
Long post, but I felt the need to say this. Do I want AFD/Veterans Day to go? Of course not, but I wish society allowed people to be more comfortable to say these things, without being accused of being an ungrateful git. My Uncle served in the First Gulf War, lots of my friends are either military/Air Force wives, or in the force/military themselves. I appreciate it, but I'm going to question it.