Name changed.
I'm rubbish at interviews and had failed at over 7 over 6 months.
I had a job coming up and I knew there was a friend of a friend who could help me. I admit I was manipulative. I gave her a bit of a sob story about how I was so depressed I couldn't get a job (it was true though). Knowing she would put a good word in for me.
So she told the hiring manager I was brilliant and the person she wanted to get the job etc. She worked for the same department previously and was very well respected so this personal recommendation mattered. But while it helps there is a 'merit' based system so while it's not point based it's an overall mark for your answer.
So the friend found out the questions beforehand for me and rang me to give me them and then sat down with me the following week and told me what to say for each one.
When the day of the interview came I obviously excelled as I knew the questions and answers. There was one question I didn't know but gave a good answer anyway.
I got the job and was delighted. I am qualified for the job and competent but I'm so so rubbish at interviews.
As my start date goes nearer I my excitement has gone.
I cheated.
I would not have known the answers without help and had a HUGE advantage over the other candidates. I don't think I would be sacked if found out and there's no way they could prove it anyway but I just feel bad.
Like I've not got the job on merit.
But then loads of people get jobs because of who they know every day.
So maybe I should forgive myself.
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Should I take the job when I cheated to get it
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Fuzzywuzzy1 · 18/06/2017 09:22
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