To ask if/how you celebrate your wedding anniversary?

[Onthedowns]

So slightly upset this evening . Been married 10 years today together 21. DH never really makes that much interest in anniversaries we never go out or away. Being a bit of a bigger one I suggested going away for a night - not keen would rather spend money on family holiday. We struggle with babysitters and our ds isn't great sleeper someone offered to babysit tonight DH doesn't like going out for meals would rather drink- I didn't want to just go out drinking , we had no dinner in anyway .anyeay sorting kids etc getting them to bed he falls asleep wakes up 830 , I suggest getting some food no he doesn't eat takeaways. So I have done my ironing and gone to bed not eaten. I feel sad the day just goes past no recognition but also it's symptomatic of our marriage currently. I would've like to go away we aren't broke but not flush either , with enough notice we could get someone in to babysit . He's not interested though and it's getting to the point we have nothing to say to each other without rowing

[GnomeDePlume]

OP it sounds like the anniversary is symptomatic of wider problems in your relationship.

Do you see yourself growing old with your DH?

[Onthedowns]

We have problems we are very different bjt they are becoming more noticeable as we are getting old. We are very different people but have always worked we got together very young so not sure if that is anything to do with it

[NotCitrus]

We

[Shutupanddance1]

We celebrated our first anniversary last year with our 10 week old - I managed to cook a three course meal and we popped a champagne bottle and looked over our wedding photos together. It was really lovely - something simple can be as nice as something extravagant