STBXH and I separated about 2 months ago. He has since changed jobs and moved a 3 hour drive away so he sees the kids EOW and we plan to split their holidays 50/50. He emailed me today to say that it is normal that we share the responsibility of the driving and that he expects that we should either take it in turns or meet at a halfway point somewhere. WIBU to say no? I don't see how this is fair to me. I'd like to spend my Friday night doing something other than driving or just laze around on a Sunday sometimes. I would probably offer to do some of the driving if he lived closer and he had them during the week sometimes but it doesn't seem fair to me. I think he expects the same deal we had when we were married because I was the SAHM and he worked abroad mostly so he assumes I have nothing else to do but revolve my life around the children. I expect to start working in the coming months as well so it doesn't sit right with me. Kids are 5 and 8 if that matters. AIBU? I haven't responded to his email yet.
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