To think people can be so rude when you're pregnant?

[smileygrapefruit]

36 weeks pregnant with dc3. Bumped in to a friend who was with someone I didn't know, they were asking me how I was doing etc when her friend, upon learning this was dc3, said, "haven't you worked out what's causing it yet? How does your poor husband feel?". I was and just said "my husband is just as excited as me thanks".

Think this is the rudest I've had but also comments like Was it planned and will this be the last one ...mind your fucking business you rude twat!!!

Aibu to ask for your examples of rude things that have been said to you during pregnancy?
And wibu not to really tell that woman what I thought of her comment? Probably.

[thecatsarecrazy]

I had 2 boys and kept getting asked if I knew what I was having. I didn't and I kept getting oh a girl would be nice then. Then when ds3 was born I got asked if I was hoping for a girl. Because there's a big gap people assume he was a "surprise" no he wasn't